Some celebs flaunt their love loud and proud on social media and in interviews, and TBH, I love to see it. (Shoutout to Chrissy Teigen and John Legend for allowing me to be a part of their beautiful journey.) But then there are the A-listers who'd sooner relocate to Antarctica than reveal details about their love lives, which I totally respect, however grudgingly. Everyone has a right to privacy, and for
the most private celebrity couples, keeping their relationship under wraps is a way of life. Again, that's their prerogative. But c'mon, guys. Can't you post at least one couple selfie on Instagram? For me?
From couples who have secretly been together for what seems like forever to those who haven't even
confirmed their relationship status (just admit it, Liam Hemsworth and Gabriella Brooks), tons of Hollywood stars would rather talk about their latest projects than the person they're dating. That won't stop the paparazzi from photographing their maybe-date nights and secret smooches, however. Some super-private celeb couples are constantly in the limelight, even though they would really rather not be. (Sorry, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle.) Here are some A-list couples who like to keep their relationship private... but don't always succeed. FilmMagic/FilmMagic, Inc/Getty Images Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic, Inc/Getty Images
According to an October 2012
Washington Post article, Rae and her Senegalese businessman boo have been together for at least eight years. They've made a few red carpet appearances together, but Rae never talks about her relationship with Diame — even after her Insecure co-stars Jay Ellis and Yvonne Orji accidentally confirmed her engagement to Entertainment Weekly in March 2019. Rae still hasn't confirmed the engagement herself, so it's hard to say when these two will tie the knot (if they're not already secretly married, that is). Jackson Lee/GC Images/Getty Images
Fans don't know for sure when Swift first met her British actor BF, though it's believed they crossed paths at the 2016 Met Gala,
based on the lyrics of "Dress" from Swift's Lover album. A year later in May 2017, reports emerged claiming the two were dating and had been for several months. Despite her history of high-profile relationships, Swift has made it clear this relationship is private, and Alwyn is similarly coy about their romance. As he told British Vogue in September 2018, "I think we have been successfully very private and that has now sunk in for people… but I really prefer to talk about work." Jesse Grant/Getty Images Entertainment/Getty Images
Though it's a well-known fact
Queer Eye's Berk is married, he's pretty tight-lipped when it comes to his surgeon hubby. According to a May 2019 Instagram post from Berk, he and Do started dating in May 2004, and — after just over eight years of dating — the pair tied the knot in June 2012. Since Do doesn't even have a public IG account, the only details fans have about their 16-year relationship all come from Berk, and no, he doesn't share a lot of them. Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images Entertainment/Getty Images
Ashley Olsen & Louis Eisner
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Grazia, Olsen and Eisner were reportedly first spotted together in October 2017 at a gala in Los Angeles. An insider for Radar claimed Olsen reportedly met the artist through mutual high school friends and were close for years before they started dating. In Feb. 2019, another insider for Radar claimed Eisner reportedly likes his privacy, which is why he never accompanies Olsen on the red carpet. " It's not that they are trying to keep their relationship on the down low," the source claimed. "Louis just doesn't like the spotlight — even less so than Ashley." (Elite Daily previously reached out to Olsen's rep for comment on the relationship but didn't hear back.)
Jennifer Lawrence & Cooke Maroney
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Kristen Stewart & Dylan Meyer
If you know next to nothing about Stewart's relationship with her Hollywood screenwriter GF, then you're def not alone. News of Stewart and Meyer's relationship first broke in August 2019 when
the two were spotted kissing in New York City, though — as Stewart revealed during a November 2019 appearance on The Howard Stern Show — they met all the way back in 2013. While they keep their loving on the down-low, Stewart did tell Stern she already has plans to propose in the future.
Emma Roberts & Garrett Hedlund
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When actors Roberts and Hedlund were first romantically linked in March 2019, sources claimed the relationship wasn't serious. "
Garrett and Emma have been friends, but this is new, casual, and just a couple of weeks old," an insider reportedly told Us Weekly at the time. Though little else is known about their relationship, Us Weekly broke the news in June 2020 that the two are reportedly expecting their first child together. (Elite Daily previously reached out to Roberts' rep for comment on the reported pregnancy but didn't hear back.)
Bad Bunny & Gabriela Berlingeri
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Until the June 2020
Rolling Stone cover story featuring Bad Bunny dropped in May, most fans didn't even realize the singer and rapper was in a relationship, though he and Berlingeri had already been dating for years. Bad Bunny told Rolling Stone he first met the model and jewelry designer in April 2017 after a concert in Puerto Rico, and they kept their relationship totally private until February 2020, when they sat courtside at a Miami Heat game. They still keep their romance pretty hush-hush, but they're a little less private nowadays.
Kate Middleton & Prince William
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I know what you're probably thinking: Yes, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are constantly in the spotlight, but IMO, they still manage to keep their relationship pretty private. They first became an item in 2003 after meeting at University of St Andrews two years earlier, and they were together for nearly seven years before
William popped the question in October 2010. Not long after, the royal couple got married in April 2011, and though they've been photographed together thousands of times since then, you'll rarely see these two engaging in any PDA.
Meghan Markle & Prince Harry
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Just like the Cambridges, the Sussexes are the subject of constant speculation, despite revealing very little about their romance. The couple was
set up on a blind date by a mutual friend in July 2016, and in November 2017, they officially announced their engagement (though apparently, Harry actually proposed months before that). Since their May 2018 wedding, Meghan and Harry have tried to avoid the paparazzi with little success — even after they stepped down as senior royals.
Zoë Kravitz & Karl Glusman
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Liam Hemsworth & Gabriella Brooks
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Kerry Washington & Nnamdi Asomugha
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All of these celebrity couples are probably like, "Why you so obsessed with me?" Sorry, guys, but I don't have an answer.