Griffin Wynne

Bio

Griffin Wynne is a sex and relationships writer at Bustle. They’re a Capricorn King, a genderless cowgirl, and a '70s mama who is always down for plain seltzer, camping, and going to Goodwill. Griffin uses they/them pronouns and has the same birthday as Kyle Richards. Feel free to send them your favorite Dixie Chicks song or just to say hi! griffinwynne@gmail.com

Finally, Here's Great News About Gen Z Asking For Consent Before Sex

By Griffin Wynne
There's been an undeniable shift in recent years when it comes to the way people date. (That's why your mom gets stranger-danger concerns over Tinder and keeps suggesting you "hook up" with your neighbor for coffee.) But when it comes to the…

3 Self-Care Routines To Try If You're Looking For Love

By Griffin Wynne
You just got back from The Worst First Date Ever, and you're starting to question why you ever leave your apartment. Your feet have blisters. You're still hungry. And a happy relationship seems further in the past than plastic straws and pink…

These 25th Birthday Gift Ideas For Your Partner Are *So* Thoughful

By Griffin Wynne
While a literal quarter can't get you more than a gum ball or tiny windup-toy, turning a quarter of a century is totally priceless. And while you can't put a price on love, these 25th birthday gift ideas for your partner are like the colorful icing…

4 Zodiac Signs To Date If Acts Of Service Is Your Love Language

By Griffin Wynne
What's that old proverb about actions speaking louder than words? Big presents and fancy dinners can be nice, but those gestures certainly aren't the only way to express real affection and care. If your love language is acts of service, someone…

Here’s The Drunk Text You Send Your Ex, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

By Griffin Wynne
After The Longest Week Ever, you put on your favorite dress, your dancing shoes, and head out to paint the town with your besties. There was drama at work. Your little sister was acting so annoying. And everyone across every dating app was sending…

Aw, 15 People Revealed How They Make Their Partner Feel Special

By Griffin Wynne
If rom-coms looked anything like real life, there would be far less impromptu beach vacations and far more waiting in line at the grocery store and suddenly remembering that you forgot to put on deodorant. Though being in love is undoubtedly…

3 Tarot Cards That Mean A Breakup May Be Coming

By Griffin Wynne
Your partner texted you, but you have no idea what to say back. You've been fighting for a while now, and communicating feels stressful. While your friends are amazing, you just need some alone time to really process your feelings. As you light your…

The "I Love You" Text To Send Your SO, Based On Their Zodiac Sign

By Griffin Wynne
From bringing your boo a cup of coffee in bed to showing up to their little sister's dance recital, there are many ways to say "I love you" without literally saying it. Of course, when technology comes into play, there are even more routes to…

The Dating App Profile You'd Swipe Left On, Based On Your Sign

By Griffin Wynne
There are some undeniable trends in the world of internet intimacy. A gym selfie. A picture with a wild animal. A group photo from a cousin's wedding. Of course, if you've ever wondered the dating app profile to swipe left on, your zodiac sign may…

Jameela Jamil Didn’t Need To Come Out To Be Queer & Neither Do You

By Griffin Wynne
On the heels of the controversy surrounding her role in HBO’s Legendary, actor Jameela Jamil has made one thing perfectly clear: You don't have to come out for your queer identity to be valid. On Feb. 5, Jameela Jamil came out on Twitter as queer,…

20 Cheap, Last-Minute V-Day Gifts That Are Still Super Thoughtful

By Griffin Wynne
While you may want to get your boo breakfast at Tiffany's and bottles of bubbles for Valentine's Day (or anything else from an Ariana Grande song), it's not always reasonable or even possible to go all out for every holiday. Whether you like to keep…

7 Self-Care Routines That Build Confidence Before A First Date

By Griffin Wynne
The hard part is over — you flirted, texted, and, most importantly, you finally agreed on a place with a good happy hour. Now you just need to pick out an outfit, do your hair, and manage to get to the bar at a reasonable time, without…

The V-Day Text To Send Your Partner, Based On Their Zodiac Sign

By Griffin Wynne
You've already picked out the perfect V-Day present and made reservations at your regular tapas place. You know what time you're meeting, what train you're taking, and, most importantly, the iconic outfit you're going to wear for your big night out.…

Here’s Why Rereading Texts From Your Ex May Prevent You From Moving On

By Griffin Wynne
It's been a month and a half since you called it off with your ex. You've removed all traces of them from your apartment and finally remembered how to order takeout for one person instead of two. As you go through your phone trying to find the…

4 Zodiac Signs To Date If Creativity Is Important To You

By Griffin Wynne
You don't have to wear a jewel tone shawl and drink herbal tea out of a handmade ceramic mug to consider yourself a "creative." (Yes, I'm picturing Ms. Darbus from High School Musical.) Though you may be an incredible painter or an unparalleled…

40 Cheap & Unique Date Ideas That Break Routine Not Budgets

By Griffin Wynne
It's your turn to plan date night, and you really want to bring your A-game. Not only is your boo the most thoughtful, caring person ever, they always plan the coolest, and yet, most intimate dates. Though you really want to "wow" your date with…

Here’s What Vaginal Douching Means (& How To Do It Correctly)

By Griffin Wynne
When you hear the term "douche," your mind may immediately settle on your trash ex or that Classics professor who always played favorites. But outside of its colloquial use, vaginal douching has more to do with your sexual health and less to do with…

3 Zodiac Signs Most Likely To Ghost You After A Hookup

By Griffin Wynne
Short of getting your car towed during a snowstorm or having your pants rip during an important meeting, there are few things worse than having an awesome night with someone and then never hearing from them again. Whether you sent a casual text the…

6 Crystals To Keep Close After A Breakup For Good Juju

By Griffin Wynne
An Adele song plays as you archive all the pictures of you and your ex and change all the captions that mentioned them. Your freezer is stocked with all your favorite ice cream flavors, and your whole apartment smells like sage. You didn't think it…

8 Justin Bieber Lyrics That Give TMI About His Sex Life

By Griffin Wynne
Though he first entered the music world with a high-pitched voice and a swishy haircut, the days of G-rated Justin Bieber songs are farther in the past than flip phones and plastic straws. From colorful descriptions of his own desires to vivid…