50 Cool First Date Ideas You'll Wish You'd Thought Of Yourself
How many times have you chatted with a seemingly decent person on a dating app (finally), decided to meet up with them instead of watching your 18th consecutive episode of Law & Order: SVU, only to meet up for drinks at a crowded bar where you can't even hear each other because it's so loud? Probably too many times. Well, I say enough of that. While there's nothing wrong with meeting up over dinner, drinks, or coffee, having some actually cool first date ideas to break up your standard routine might genuinely make dating (*gasp*) more enjoyable. Hey, even if the person turns out to be a dud, at least you did something fun, right?
Let's be real, though: Different people like different things. My idea of actually cool first dates may seem like an actual freaking nightmare to
most some people. That's why Elite Daily rounded up a whopping 50 dope first date ideas from real people. Seriously, if you can't find one date on here that you're at least somewhat excited about about, I can't help you.
The next time you're tasked with planning the "perfect" first date — or the next time your first date suggests a couple drinks at the same dive bar you've been to 80 times — browse this list to help you create a fun time you won't forget... and maybe even a second date.
1Impress Them With Your Karaoke Skills
Karaoke is like happy hour, but better. Troy Bolton and Gabriella Montez fell in love with karaoke, so go ahead and give it a try.
— Elana, 24
2Venture Out To A Wrestling Match
I have no idea what wrestling matches are like, but I'm pretty sure you can snag tickets to one in most major cities. And I'm also pretty sure this would be a really weird, potentially awesome, first date.
— Genevieve, 25
3Get A New View Of The City
HELICOPTER RIDE. They're quick, somewhat affordable and a totally cool view that you can't get anywhere else.
— @katrinaricke on Twitter
4Experience A Japanese-Inspired Comedy Show
Batsu Live! They have a location in Chicago and NYC.
— Kara, 26
5'Ghost,' Except You're Both Alive
Think of that scene in Ghost, except you’re both alive and it’s in public. Get creative by molding and painting pottery with your date! It’s a great opportunity to get close while still doing an actual activity that’ll leave you with a cute souvenir.
— Veronica, 23
6Explore The History Of Your City
The Freedom Trail in Boston, Massachusetts.
— Jacquelyn, 24
7Support The Causes You Care About
— @sbaumwriting on Twitter
8Get Competitive At An Arcade/Barcade
Dave & Busters or some type of barcade. Shows how fun and competitive a person can be as well as comfort in acting like a kid. Also great convo starter for reminiscing on games and sh*t.
— @amberalerttt_ on Twitter
9Infuse Some Childhood Innocence Into Your Date
Before we were ~ExCLuSiVe~ (lol), my girlfriend took me on the coolest first date ever! She made an old school paper cootie catcher that had a bunch of inside jokes on it instead of colors and numbers and used it to determine the timeline of our date! She picked two brunch spots, two apple orchards and two dinner spots that would be chosen with the cootie catcher for an all-day adventure date. Then, at the end of the night, we went to one of those walk-through haunted Halloween extravaganza type things in New York State (you know, with like, a haunted hayride, and a bunch of different haunted house type things.) It was the most incredibly thoughtful date I've ever been on in my whole life!
— Hannah C., 24
Get makeovers together. Make appointments at a local salon and just tell the stylists to go to town. You two can bond while getting your hair washed.
— Genevieve, 25
11Who Needs A First Date When You Have A Book?
1) Take me to a book store
2) Buy me a book
3) I ghost you and spend the rest of my life with the love of my life, a book
— @lizlong_prosper on Twitter
13Go Broke On Your First Date!
— @TheContourQueen on Twitter
15Pet Exactly 7,845,309,234 Dogs At A Dog Park
[Try] a trip to the dog park if you and your date both have dogs. This is the kind of the thing you can probably guess from someone's dating app profile, so it's a good idea to pitch. I once had a guy on a dating app suggest this after I turned down his dinner date because I was afraid to meet up with someone from an app for the first time at night. He made a good argument for the dog park being a pretty poor location choice for kidnapping someone.
— Sydnee, 26
17Work Up A Sweat (No, Not In The Bedroom... Unless You Want To)
Take advantage of those endorphins by working out on a first date. If exercise is something you both enjoy, taking a class together or going for yoga in the park is a great way to bond over a shared passion.
— Veronica, 23
18Throw Some Axes Together And Hope For The Best
Axe or knife throwing in which no one dies; a pottery class while watching Ghost in which no one dies; play the horses, bet your life savings, and if you lose, someone dies?
— @kcawlz on Twitter
19Go On A Very ~Sexy~ Adventure
The Museum of Sex in New York. Hear me out, this is creepy, but also... if you're gonna have sex anyway... why not? It's actually very educational! And kinda hot, too.
— Hannah O., 24
20Fill Up At A Boozy Brunch
Breakfast dates! I don't know why this isn't a thing but I am so down for breakfast dates, maybe even throw in a low-energy hike or casual walk afterward. It's perfect because it's during the day or mid-morning, making any awkward talk about going back to their place less likely if you'd rather take things slow.
— Sydnee, 26
21Pretend You're Both Spies
22Get ~SpOoKy~ At A Haunted House
A haunted house. People don't usually do something spooky on a first date, but why not? You get to cuddle/hold onto each other while being chased by demons, and the adrenaline rush will make you feel happy and excited once you make it through.
— Elana, 24
23Let Your Feels Erupt With A Hike To A Volcano
Trekking in an inactive volcano and then catch the sunsire near the crater, take silhouette pictures of her.
— @extraricea on Twitter
24Let ~The Future~ Decide If There Will Be A Second Date
Visit a psychic together. Find out right away if you're compatible, destined to die alone, if your date is new age-y or superstitious, etc.
— Hannah O., 24
25Put A Pause On Seamless & Make Something Yourselves
Cooking together ;)
— @forkandspoonapp on Twitter
26Go Cheer On The Sports Together!
This isn’t that wild but I went to a Pirates/Yankees game with my bf on our first date. They’re both our own favorite teams and because they’re in different leagues they rarely ever play each other. It was REALLY FUN and we ate snacks until we got sick.
— @darthbab on Twitter
28Put Your Thinking Caps On At Some Museums
I wanna go museum-hopping in Smithsonian after lunch, then go to Arlington Cemetery where we exchange facts about who were buried here, go up the Washington Monument to look at city lights, have dinner, then go to a place where we can stargaze.
— @crrisatea on Twitter
29Create A Masterpiece
Make fun (nicely!) of each other’s painting talents or lack thereof by enjoying a painting and wine class together. They offer these sessions almost everywhere, for a pretty reasonable price. Follow the instructor or do your own thing, but help each other out and see how your date takes criticism! It’s a great indicator of their personality.
— Veronica, 23
30Embrace Your Inner Chefs & Learn At The Same Time
A breadmaking class then afterwards stop somewhere to buy wine + cheese on the way to the beach for a sunset picnic (everything tastes better when you made it).
— @deannalynneh on Twitter
31Become Your Own Bartenders
I did a cocktail-making class once with a friend, and I thought it'd be a really fun date. It's not so much pressure to talk to them the whole time because you're busy making something, and it's basically a drinks date, but, like, 10 percent more creative.
— Hannah O., 24
32Or Just Focus On Drinking The Drinks Instead Of Making Them
— @MissCJOverly on Twitter
33Host An All-Strangers Dinner Party
This one a) sounds mildly terrifying, and b) requires a few friends to get on board as well, but you should totally try it out. If you've got a few roommates or friends who are also single, plan a dinner party, and have everyone invite a stranger from a dating app (or wherever!) as their date. Maybe it'll be awesome, maybe it'll be awful, maybe you'll end the night with a performance from taxidermy mice? TBD.
— Genevieve, 25
35Celebrate The Sports With Food
FOOD CRAWL at a baseball game
— Tina, 25
36See Whether Or Not Your Date Can Appreciate The Arts
Go to an art museum! I think you can tell a lot about a person by how they appreciate art. Do they stare intensely at each painting, scratch their chin, and contemplate the meaning of life? Do they breeze through the entire exhibition in .02 seconds? Do they get bored immediately, run away from you, and hide in a bathroom stall? If you and your date can spend four hours together staring at random sh*t on walls, then you can do anything.
— Lisa, 26
37Or Just Appreciate The Arts In A Different Way
You could try an Art Run. I did one once with friends, so fun! It's very low-key and you don't have to be good at running. It's super tame, and you stop a lot to take pics.
— Laura, 24
38Cozy Up Together At The Top Of A Ferris Wheel
I'd love to go to a carnival on a first date because there are a lot of games and activities to break the ice. You can go on rides, eat cotton candy, and act like a kid again! It'd be a really fun way to get to know your date. Plus, it'd probably be pretty romantic to make out on top of the Ferris wheel! Just sayin'.
— Margaret, 23
39Have A Behind-The-Scenes Look At A Place You Wouldn't Expect
Go on a behind-the-scenes tour of an aquarium.
— Austin, 28
40Get Your Wheels Turning — Literally
Bike ride in the park followed by ice cream and a movie afterwards if it’s going well. Getting outside and active calms the nerves, and then a sweet treat means you’ll get something out of it, whether or not the date actually goes well lol. And then the movie gives you a common experience to talk about.
— Caitlyn, 28
41Brave The Water Together In A Kayak
Going kayaking on a first date would be a fun adventure and a great way to spend time together outdoors. It could also be a great trust-building exercise if you rent a two-person kayak!
— Jose, 21
42Walk It Off
I really think a nice, scenic walk is a great first date. First off, walking is a healthier (and safer) way to get rid of your first date jitters than drinks. Second, you can easily leave whenever you want. Third, it gives you plenty of time to actually get to know the person without distractions, while still giving you something to bond over.
— Candice, 25
43Get A Strike On The Very First Date
Bowling is a super fun date idea. If you're someone who finds awkward silences difficult or who is a little more reserved, bowling is an activity you can focus on so you don't have to talk the entire time. Plus, this a good way to laugh at yourselves if you're both awful at bowling.
— Joanne, 54
44Give Back While You Get To Know Each Other
Give back to your community by volunteering on a first date. You can head to a soup kitchen or an animal shelter for a couple hours, and then grab some food and drinks if you're both feeling each other.
— Meredith, 24
45Bond Over Spoken Word
Open mic night or poetry slams are always fun. You can chat in between acts, and the performances will give you something to talk about after.
— Yvonne, 33
46Let The Open Road Take You Away
Get in the car together, just start driving, and see where you end up. My co-worker has always wanted to do this, and it seems like a fun way to get to talk, get to know each other, and take in the scenery of wherever you drive. Then, you can continue the date wherever you decide to stop.
— Laura, 24
48Stage A Mini Photo Shoot
Grab your phones (or fancy cameras, if you have them) and go explore a photogenic part of whatever city you live in. Take silly photos of each other while you're at it. It'll help you see whether or not your date has a sense of humor.
— Danielle, 19
49Head To A ~Secret~ Music Gig
Sofar Sounds is a cool first date idea because it's essentially a surprise concert. You basically apply for tickets to a small, secret venue (Sofar lets you know the location a little before the event), and then, you don't find out who's playing until you get there.
— Lauren, 29
50If All Else Fails, Animals Are Your Best Bet
Even the worst first date is worlds better if it's at the zoo. No, seriously, there's nothing cute animals can't fix.
— Theresa, 24