Sarah Ellis

Sarah Ellis is an NYC-based dating and culture writer originally from Nashville, Tennessee. When she's not working on a story, you can catch her out on a run or trying every new coffee shop in the city. In addition to her written work, Sarah co-hosts a podcast called Subtext, where she breaks down listener questions about the language of online dating and relationships. Follow her on Instagram @sarahaellis_ for more snapshots of life.

Here's How To Keep Mutual Friends After A Breakup, Because It's Awkward But Possible

I have a good friend who recently went through a tough breakup. It was one of those situations where the relationship was good, but not right. The hardest thing was that they still shared the same gym… and all the mutual friends they had made there…

10 Signs Your Relationship Is Super Serious, According To Love Experts

There comes a time in many long-term relationships, after things have been progressing for awhile, when you might step back and think to yourself, “Wow, we’re really in this for the long haul.” Maybe it’s one super romantic moment that brings about…

This Sexy, New Self-Pleasure Site Is Run By Caroline Spiegel, Sister To Snapchat's CEO

Porn is basically everywhere on the internet these days, and for some people, it’s a useful tool to help them explore and embrace their sexuality. But for others, the current selection isn’t really turning them on. Caroline Spiegel knows this all…

Here's How The Psychology Behind Hinge's New Design Will Help You Find Love

Here’s something I’ve always thought was ironic — dating apps, which are intended to help us meet people IRL, can sometimes cause us to spend more time on our phones. I often feel like I spend hours swiping, scrolling, and messaging people instead…

Priyanka Got Honest About How She Knew Nick Was The One & I'm Swooning

With Nick Jonas in the midst of an iconic Jonas Brothers reunion, and Priyanka Chopra having just starred in the rom-com Isn't It Romantic? and launched a YouTube series called If I Could Tell You Just One Thing highlighting female role models, it’s…

15 Tweets That Sum Up Casual Dating In 2019, Because It Can Be Tough Out There

I know, I know — you probably didn’t come here to read another complaint about how dating is “worse than it’s ever been.” That’s a bit of an exaggeration. But seriously, y’all, it’s tough out there! Even if you aren't looking for anything serious,…

Here's How To Tell If You Got Engaged Too Soon — & How To Handle The Situation

It feels like everyone I know is getting engaged lately, and I totally love it. Weddings are one of my very favorite things — there’s nothing better than seeing two people commit to forever, through thick and thin, for better or for worse. Call me a…

The Psychology Behind Breakup Sex Reveals Why It Can Be So Confusing

Picture this: you’re in the middle of a heated breakup with bae. Both of you are upset, tears have been shed, and you’ve been talking in circles for an hour. As tough as this is, though, you know it’s the right move to end your relationship. Just as…

It Turns Out That Having A Dog Has This Major Effect On Your Dating Life

In many ways, having a dog is similar to having a child. You’re responsible for the life and happiness of this tiny, adorable creature, and often, your dog’s daily routine becomes a major part of how you structure your day. Pet parent life…

Bobby Jacobs Says There Was No Cheating Causing His Split From Amanda Stanton

Well, it looks like Bachelor alum Amanda Stanton and her boyfriend Bobby Jacobs have officially called it quits. While it’s unclear what exactly caused the split, Bobby Jacobs’ quote about his Amanda Stanton breakup suggests that Jacobs still cares…

Zayn Went Off On Twitter To Defend His Ex Gigi Hadid & Fight Off Her Haters

OK, y’all, is it too much to ask that Zayn Malik and Gigi Hadid get back together for good? I, for one, adore their relationship, even though it’s had its share of ups and downs over the past three years. Although they broke up in January, they…

Experts Reveal What It Means If Your SO Always Texts You Back Right Away

If I'm being honest, texting is a constant source of stress and confusion. First of all, everyone has a different communication style — some people love emojis and gifs, while others prefer to keep it simple. Some people overdo it on the exclamation…

10 Women In Their 20s Reveal Their Most Game-Changing Dating App Tips

I can't claim to be an expert on finding true love, but I know one thing for certain — dating app skills are a must-have when you're looking for that special someone. If you’ve been single anytime in the last few years, chances are you’ve dabbled in…

Uh Oh, Did You DTR Too Soon? Don't Panic, Here's What To Do

Ah, the ever-stressful “defining the relationship” talk. It’s a hallmark of any new romantic partnership, and everyone seems to have different opinions about how to do it the right way. Often, it ends up being a guessing game based on whatever feels…

5 Ways To Amp Up The Romance In Your Relationship, So Get Ready To Swoon

Relationships, like all things, change with time. And while there are many beautiful things about a long-term commitment to someone, keeping the spark alive can sometimes be challenging. After all, when you settle into a routine together, it’s not…

4 Women Share Why Walking Themselves Down The Aisle Is So Perfectly Fitting

I’m not anywhere close to being married yet, but thankfully, my family and I have a pretty open dialogue about what to expect when that day comes. I’m lucky to have parents who are really supportive of my life and my dreams, and they love the fact…

If You're Falling Out Of Love, Here's How To Save Your Relationship

If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, it’s natural that your feelings may change and shift a bit. That being said, you never want to feel like the love isn’t alive anymore, even when the initial honeymoon phase is over. The experience of…

Jennette McCurdy Is Super Tight-Lipped About Her Love Life, But Here's What To Know

I have mad respect for Jennette McCurdy. The former iCarly and Sam & Cat star is not only funny AF, but she’s also recently gone public about her years-long struggle with disordered eating and her journey toward loving her body. I always find it so…

Here's How Ben Higgins Knew He Was Ready To Start A New Relationship Post-'Bachelor' — EXCLUSIVE

Ben Higgins is no stranger to sharing his heart in a public way. The former Bachelor, who starred in the show’s 20th season in 2016, has always been honest about his feelings — even when it means he’ll inevitably face criticism. (ICYMI: He famously…

If Your Partner Has Trust Issues, Here's What That Could Mean For Your Relationship

If you’ve experienced trust issues in your relationship, you know all too well how tough they can be. Feelings of betrayal and sadness add a lot of weight to a loving partnership — but the good news is, you can work through them together and grow…