Dating, Decoded

Dating, Decoded is a monthly advice column about single life, dating, sex, and relationships geared toward Gen Z. Written by Sarah Ellis Elite Daily’s Senior Editor of Entertainment and Dating and a double water sign who lives in her feelings Dating, Decoded offers practical advice while reminding readers they already have all the tools they need to find happiness and confidence in their love lives. Have a question for Sarah? Submit it here.

Dating, Decoded

I Want To Date Women, But I’m Too Scared To Start. Help!

Do I need to mention on dates that I’ve never done this before?

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

Should I Try To Salvage My Dying Situationship?

Part of me thinks this is stupid, but the other part of me just wants to send the text.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

How Do I Find Hot Hookups These Days? Don’t Say Dating Apps

I’m barely interested in anyone on Hinge or Bumble, and I’m not trying to be a pen pal.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

Help! My Ex Just Added Me On Co–Star

During Mercury retrograde, no less.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

My Boyfriend Wants To Have Sex With Other People. Are We Doomed?

For now he says he wants to be with me... but I’m jealous of the safety my friends have in their relationships.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

My Recent Ex Keeps Reaching Out. How Do I Set A Boundary?

I want to keep talking to her, but it feels like it’s only hurting us both.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

I’m Shy About Dating. How Do I Make The First Move?

I caught feelings for someone, but I don’t know how to tell him.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

Is It OK To Be Hooking Up With Multiple People At Once?

I’m having fun with my FWB, but I also want to keep dating.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

I Got An STI From My Last Partner. How Do I Approach Dating Now?

I’m nervous about having to disclose this to new people.

By Sarah Ellis
Dating, Decoded

How Do I Protect Myself From Getting Hurt When People Can’t Commit?

I’m honest about what I want, but it doesn’t seem to be helping.

By Sarah Ellis