Dating, Decoded is a monthly advice column about single life, dating, sex, and relationships geared toward Gen Z. Written by Sarah Ellis — Elite Daily’s Senior Editor of Entertainment and Dating and a double water sign who lives in her feelings — Dating, Decoded offers practical advice while reminding readers they already have all the tools they need to find happiness and confidence in their love lives. Have a question for Sarah? Submit it here.
My Boyfriend Wants To Have Sex With Other People. Are We Doomed?
For now he says he wants to be with me... but I’m jealous of the safety my friends have in their relationships.
My Recent Ex Keeps Reaching Out. How Do I Set A Boundary?
I want to keep talking to her, but it feels like it’s only hurting us both.
I’m Shy About Dating. How Do I Make The First Move?
I caught feelings for someone, but I don’t know how to tell him.
Is It OK To Be Hooking Up With Multiple People At Once?
I’m having fun with my FWB, but I also want to keep dating.
I Got An STI From My Last Partner. How Do I Approach Dating Now?
I’m nervous about having to disclose this to new people.
How Do I Protect Myself From Getting Hurt When People Can’t Commit?
I’m honest about what I want, but it doesn’t seem to be helping.
I Slept With Someone & Then He Lost Interest. What Happened?
I’m confused because the sex was great.
How Do I Friendzone Someone & Actually Stay Friends?
The discomfort and tension between us is becoming a bit much.
Am I Falling In Love Too Quickly?
I feel super strongly about her, but it’s only been a few months.
My Situationship Broke Up With Me Unexpectedly. What Went Wrong?
I know he has feelings for me, but I guess his fears are bigger.