Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a dating writer at Elite Daily as well as a certified intimacy educator, professional coach, trained mediator, and published author focused on communication and relationships (and yes, sometimes that includes sex.)

Her freelance career is never dull; highlights include being sent to a strip club with a press pass to report on Stormy Daniels, appearing on the evening news to discuss the importance of sex education in schools, and speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits.

Thanks to her sense of humor and ability to make difficult conversations approachable, Stella is a frequent guest on podcasts, and she's also a regular performer at live storytelling shows, including Mystery Box Show and Risk!

Stella's hobbies usually take people by surprise; in her (limited) downtime, you'll find her taking taxidermy classes, giving Halloween tours at her local cemetery, or simply snuggled up watching horror movies.

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

Sex

Why Guys Like Being Called “Daddy” In Bed, According To Experts

The answer may surprise you 👀

By Stella Harris
Identity

What Is Asexuality? Experts Debunk Common Misconceptions

“If you identify as ace, you don’t have anything to prove — to yourself or to anyone else.”

By Stella Harris
Relationships

How To Know If Jealousy Is Healthy Or Controlling, According To Experts

Plus red flags to watch out for.

By Stella Harris
Magic

3 Love Spells To Perform On Halloween, According To #WitchTok

Get ready to manifest 🔮

By Stella Harris
Halloween

25 Hot And Sexy Halloween Costume Ideas For A Sizzling, Spooky Night

BRB, trying #8...

By Stella Harris
Identity

What Is Sex Like After Transitioning? Therapists Weigh In

It’s OK to navigate the changes one step at a time.

By Stella Harris
Let's Play

Here Are The 21 Best Sex Toys For Men Under $40

Pleasure en route 👀

By Stella Harris
Sexuality

What’s The Difference Between Bisexual & Pansexual?

And how to know which label fits you.

By Stella Harris
Sex

The Best Lubricants Under $25 To Keep In Your Bedside Drawer

Adding these to cart ASAP. 🔥

By Stella Harris
Sex

Wanna Try Anal Sex? Here's How To Prepare

Sexperts say a little prep work can make the experience even hotter.

By Stella Harris
Dating

If You Just Came Out, Here’s What To Know About LGBTQ+ Dating

Tips for navigating flirting, sex, dates, finding community, and more.

By Stella Harris
Sex

What Is Ethical Porn & Why Does It Matter? Experts Weigh In

Filmmakers, performers, and sexperts share their insights.

By Stella Harris
Sex

37 Kinks To Try For A Spicier Sex Life

Bondage, dirty talk, and power play, oh my!

By Stella Harris
Sex

Getting An IUD Can Be Painful, So Why Is Anesthesia Used So Rarely?

It's complicated, but the good news is that other pain management methods might be available to you.

By Stella Harris
LGBTQ+

Soft-Launching Your Sexuality — What It Is And How To Do It

Coming out, one emoji at a time.

By Stella Harris
LGBTQ+

Here's How To Explore Your Sexuality

Ready? 🏳️‍🌈

By Stella Harris
sex

Curious About Orgasm Control? Here's How It Works And Why It's So Hot

You’ll never look at begging the same way again.

By Stella Harris
Sex

What's A Humiliation Kink? Here's How To Get Started

Squirming never felt so good.

By Stella Harris
Sex

LGBTQ+ People Should Pee After Sex, Too, FYI

Peeing after sex is essential for wellness, no matter who you sleep with (including solo sex.)

By Stella Harris
Texting

20 Hot Sexts To Send Right Now, From Mild To Wild

Need ideas for hot messages to send? We've got you covered with sexts from mild to wild.

By Stella Harris