In my opinion, a person can have many more desirable qualities than being "mellow" or "agreeable."Perhaps this is because I'm from suburban New England. But more likely, it's because I'm a Capricorn, one of the five zodiac signs who are the least chill in relationships.
If you're anything like me, you may find it hard to "play it cool," in bothrelationships and life. If you're really like me, phrases like "take it easy" or "calm down" may make you want to scream and throw your toaster oven out of your kitchen window. I've been told that being "mellow" can be a fun way to live your life, mainly by friends who are air signs. In my personal dictionary, however, "chill" only refers to Chilean sea bass and chilled white wine, i.e., the components of a fancy four-course meal to be consumed after getting a promotion at work.What can I say? I've never really been able to "relax" or "see where things go," and I have minimal interest in "casually hanging out" with someone I have "uncasual" feelings for.