Jordan Harbinger

Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence, Interpersonal Dynamics and Social Engineering, helping private companies test the security of their communications systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive. Jordan has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war-zones and been kidnapped -twice. He’ll tell you; the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of), just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.

The Problem Isn't Being Nice; The Problem Is Being Boring

ByJordan Harbinger
I’d like to counter argue the recent article about why girls don’t want nice guys; it’s untrue and I’m tired of guys hiding behind the excuse. In the piece, Paul Hudson leads us through his personal journey as a “nice guy,” before reaching the…

5 Ways To Act More Like A Grown Man

ByJordan Harbinger
We often hear, here at The Art of Charm, that guys want to grow up faster. They get out of college, see their college buddies leading stagnant lives and don’t want to be “that guy.” Still, they aren’t sure how to take things to the next level.…

Why Chivalry Most Certainly Isn't Dead

ByJordan Harbinger
The phrase “chivalry is dead” has been in vogue for decades. In fact, not long ago, Elite Daily contributing writer John Picciuto took on the concept “from a man’s perspective.” He joined the mainstream media by blaming hookup culture for what’s…

Walk Boldly And Get Noticed: 4 Simple Tricks To Charming A Woman

ByJordan Harbinger
To approach women successfully, men must display confidence even if they have none. The easiest way to accomplish this is through a confident walk. Women respond to an assertive, masculine gait, which in turn, leaves men feeling more…

The Universal Secrets To Approaching Women Anywhere

ByJordan Harbinger
A lot of guys are great at talking to women when they’re out at a bar or club. However, these same men aren’t so sure how to talk to a woman in a coffee shop, at a bus stop or walking down the street. Here’s the quick and dirty on how you can talk…

How To Nail Your Approach Every Time: A Guy's Guide To Approaching Women

ByJordan Harbinger
The hardest part of talking to women? The approach. You know how it feels. The pit of your stomach tightens. Your hands get clammy and your heart pounds. But what if I told you that you could stop having approach anxiety all together? What if I told…

How To Create Meaningful Connections Through Deep Conversation With Her

ByJordan Harbinger
The Art of Charm is a big fan of open-ended questions that lead to deep conversations. Getting in-depth with her is going to create emotional connections that have her remembering you as “the guy who gets her.” That’s one of the best take homes that…

A Guy's Guide To Dressing The Part On The First Date

ByJordan Harbinger
One of the most common questions I am asked is in regards to what men should wear on a first date. We’re not a generation that was raised on dating, so knowing what to wear on a date isn’t something you’ve been dealing with since high school.…

The Biggest Mistakes Guys Make With Body Language

ByJordan Harbinger
When it comes to body language, most men are thoroughly in the dark. Who can blame them? They’ve never paid attention to it. There are some mistakes that are more common than others, however, and you’d be amazed at how easily you can correct them.…

Stop Hanging Out: How To Ask Her On A Proper Date

ByJordan Harbinger
Asking a girl out on a proper date is the name of the game. It’s how the men are separated from the boys. You want to be known as a take-charge man who goes right after what he wants. Asking her out on a date, rather than just vaguely suggesting…

A Response To "Why Men Aren't Really Men Anymore"

ByJordan Harbinger
Paul Hudson thinks that men aren’t men anymore. We couldn’t disagree more. It’s a common trope in the media today: The death of manliness. Shows like "Mad Men" and "Boardwalk Empire" hark back to an earlier era when manliness was more prominent.…