"I hate bringing myself to orgasm," said no one ever. Self-pleasuring feels good and is good for you, and IMO, if you're not already putting your hand down your pants, then you should try it. Whether you like to get off with the help of toys, erotic fiction, or pornography, masturbating is a top-notch way to put your own pleasure first. And even if you're a rock star at reaching climax, there's always a way to spice up your next ménage à moi sesh. I've got some suggestions for sexy songs to listen to while masturbating, and these tunes are sure to make your toes curl.
Self-pleasure is empowering, and some of the best songs to listen to while buffin' your muffin are about self-love. It doesn't matter whether you're boo'd up or single as a Pringle — masturbation gives you an opportunity to celebrate your own sexuality without depending on others to satisfy your needs (and, more importantly, without having to satisfy their needs). Maybe something slow and steady is most likely to turn you on. Perhaps you need an upbeat bop to get into the mood. Whatever you're looking for, these songs are worth a listen next time you're lovin' on yourself.
Ain't the reason, I'm cocky / I make myself feel sexy / Fanning myself, I'm stanning myself / I love me so much I put my hands on myself
Need a confidence boost? Then this song is for you.
I'll take it nice and slow / Feeling good on my own without you, yeah / Got me speaking in tongues / The beautiful, it comes without you, yeah
Fact: No one understands your needs better than you.
'Cause I just discovered / Imagination's taking over / Another day without a lover / The more I come to understand / The touch of my hand
Subtle lyrics are way overrated.
When I'm alone / I don't need you / I love my touch / Know just what to do
Find a bop more empowering than this one. I dare you.
I'm in control / My hands are shakin' / My skin's getting wetter / I'm coming close / It's overloading / I'm walking with fire
Whew. Is it hot in here, or is it just me?
I'll be the one / If you don't care about me / Making love to myself / Back on my beat
It may take two to tango, but it only takes one to get it on.
Yeah yeah, you say you love me, I ain't fooling with that / They ask me how I keep a man, I keep a battery pack
Players < Vibrators
When it’s late at night and you're fast a sleep / I let my fingers do the walking / I press record, I become a fiend / And no one else is watching / I let my fingers do the walking
Having an SO doesn't necessarily mean having all your needs met. Just saying.
I'm so feelin' me right now / Think I fell in love, fell in love in the club tonight / I'm so feelin' me right now / I wanna take her home, take her home / 'Cause I know I'll love her right
Is there anything hotter than falling in love with yourself?
Never left but I'm back at it, and I'm feelin' myself, jack rabbit / Feelin' myself, back off, cause I'm feelin' myself
If this song doesn't turn you on, then I don't know what will.
I don't need a ring around my finger / To make me feel complete / So let me break it down / I can get off when you ain't around
Who needs a ring when you have a finger?
Sex with me is amazing, with her it'll feel all right / The sex doesn't get any better, make it long, let it be all night / I know, I know, I make it hard to let go / Tonight, all night, I'm Monroe / Even if I'm alone
*fans self frantically*
Heard your boyfriend was away this weekend / Wanna meet at my place / Heard that we both got nothing to do / When I lay in bed I touch myself and think of you
Everyone needs a little inspiration, right?
Diving in ferociously, dancing intimately / I'm so connected to me / In the dark I'm letting go, so anonymously / I guess this is what it feels like to be free
If you're looking for something a little upbeat, Selena Gomez is always a good idea.
I don't see nobody else / 'Scuse me while I feel myself
This list wouldn't be complete without a song from the queen of self-love.
I don't need no other, I'm satisfied / Doing it on my own / Only takes one lover to change your vibe / Ain't that the way it go
It's so cute when other people think you depend on them for pleasure.
Can't even play it cool / Thinkin' about them nights I would've rather been with you / Tonight / I wanna have some good fun tonight / I wanna get into somethin' tonight / I just wanna make up for lost time
Even if you don't have your (wo)man, you always have the company of your hand.
Need some ~good vibes~? Then grab some fresh batteries and cue up this playlist.
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