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5 Of The Best Sex Toys You Need For Amazing Solo Sex

by Alison Segel
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All women deserve orgasms.

Wanting and demanding an orgasm is not a radical act. Plus, did you know the clitoris has more nerve endings than the penis? Women are supposed to orgasm! We aren't just baby machines!

Additionally, the majority of women need some sort of external stimulation to come, meaning they can't just achieve the big O from sex alone. If we're going to have those orgasms, they're either going to come from toys that stimulate the clit during sex, or from masturbation.

Women masturbate. Women should masturbate. There's no need to be shy about it, because guys certainly aren't.

When you're getting down with yourself solo, though, sometimes your hand doesn't quite do the trick. But adding sex toys to your masturbation mix can be pretty fun — and can make orgasming easier.

So if you're looking to spice up your masturbation routine (or just make it a lot faster and easier), here are five of the best sex toys you need for solo sex.

1. The Magic Wand

The Magic Wand is the sex toys of all sex toys. (Yeah, your mom probably had one and told you it was a neck massager.)

And here's the thing: It really can be used for a neck massage. But what it's really good for — and what we're all actually using it for — is good, old-fashioned masturbation.

The Magic Wand can be a little bit intense — one comes with a 6-foot cord that needs to be plugged into the wall.

However, this one is cordless, rechargeable, and has a great track record with providing decades of women with orgasms. So you can't go wrong here.

2. Womanizer Plus PleasureAir Vibrator

This sex toy feels like someone is going down on you (by using "pleasure air" technology), so Amazon Prime it to your house pronto! You can Prime oral sex to your house, and no men have to be involved! Hallelujah!

This little guy is obviously expensive, but I'd pay a pretty penny if I could have oral sex whenever I wanted, without having to deal with Bumble swipes, read receipts, or annoying guys again.

3. iFUN Heating Rabbit G-Spot Vibrator

This rabbit vibrator does it all.

First of all, it has 10 different speeds. It also acts as a dildo AND a clitoral vibrator, so it stimulates both your G-spot and your clit. Basically, it turns on all the places — you're gonna be stimulated everywhere.

The vibrator also heats up, which I guess is something that I want in my vibrator, assuming it provides me more pleasure? I don't know. I enjoy being warm, so I assume my vagina would like it, too.

4. Sexflesh Chiseled Chad Male Love Doll

May I introduce you to... Chiseled Chad.

This is perfect for wanting some solo pleasure, but also missing the feeling and touch of a man (or if you've watched Magic Mike recently and can't stop fantasizing about what the cast probably looks like naked).

Basically, this is mainly for women who want to buy a boyfriend pillow, but who also feel like coming.

Do you need this one? No, probably not. But it comes highly recommended on Amazon (4.5 out of 5 stars), and if you hide it in your closet, no one will ever know about it.

Honestly, it seems like a pretty good time. Just don't leave it out on your bedside table, or even worse, in your bed, if you're expecting company.

That would be hard to explain!

5. Pheiho Rechargeable Waterproof Personal Wireless Vibrator

Full disclosure, folks, I had this vibrator, and I had to throw it away because I was using it too much. That's how good and simple it is!

It's cordless, rechargeable, and has seven different speeds, which is just about as many speeds as I need in a vibrator. I don't need 50 vibrator speeds. I don't even know 50 sex positions.

Most importantly, it's cheap. While some vibrators can cost you hundreds of dollars, this one is only 20 buckaroos. I like that. I'm on a budget!

So instead of seeing a movie or ordering Postmates one night, why not invest in a vibrator instead? After all, it's self care.