It's safe to say that things are going splendidly with your match. You've exchanged some flirty banter, you established that you can both recite endless quotes from Parks and Rec like true fanatics, and maybe you've even talked about the possibility of meeting up IRL down the line. Now, you're eager to take your convo off the app to see where it leads. If you want to ask a dating app match for their number, you'll obvi want to be smooth about it. After all, you've already made a killer impression, and getting their digits is just one more opportunity to keep that up.
Sure, you could simply fire off a message that reads, "What's your phone number?" but where's the creativity — or excitement — in that? You've got way more game than that. Asking in a more unique way will not only make you stand out among other matches, but spiking their interest will also increase the likelihood that you actually get their digits... and then a text back.
So, ready to take things to a new level with your latest crush? Go ahead and fire off one of these foolproof messages, kick back, pour yourself a bev, and just wait for those digits to roll in.
If you're too shy to put your question into words, try this simple but straightforward formula. Your match will definitely get the hint.
The power of this message lies in the fact that rather than just requesting their number, you're also dangling your own as a prize. Plus, it has has an undeniably flirty tone, which can only work in your favor.
This message is laced with a little levity, which lightens the mood and takes some of the pressure off if you're nervous about asking for their number. There's nothing demanding about it, either — in fact, it's casual AF.
If you and your match really are hitting it off, they're not going to want to miss out on an opportunity to keep deepening your connection. That's why this message is super effective.
Similar to the last one, this message adds a bit of urgency to the situation — which may very well inspire them to offer up their number ASAP.
A little humor never hurts. The playful nature of this message could very well inspire your match to LOL — and as a result, they won't be able to help themselves from passing along their digits.
Again, this message is light-hearted and likely to make your match crack a smile — at the very least. Note that the wink emoji at the end is key so that it's clear you're just flirting, not lying or playing a game in order to get their number.
This message is brimming with confidence — which, let's be real, is oh so sexy.
Yeah, your match isn't going to be able to resist the allure of this one. It's not only charming — it's also kind of a genius way to motivate them into transitioning to text.
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