Sexy Texts To Send Your Partner Before Bed To Give Them Extra Sweet Dreams

Before I met my current partner, I was in a long-term, long-distance relationship with someone in Ireland. Two things I learned in that relationship (aside from developing an appreciation for Irish whiskey) were: one, how to maximize my frequent flyer miles, and two, how to give really good text. When you don't get to spend time together IRL very often, you have to become skilled at keeping the romance and connection alive any other way you can. A big part of that coming up with texts to send your partner that will let them know just exactly how much you miss them... in bed.

The key to a good racy good-night text is to get their imagination going. You can be pretty explicit if that's your or your partner's speed, but I prefer to be a bit more cheeky and tease them a bit. You want to always leave them wanting more before you go to sleep so that they're thinking of you when they go to bed, and can't help but wake up thinking about you, too. Doesn't that sound like something you'd be into? Then read on for some of my tried and tested sexy good-night text ideas.


1. Hey you, I couldn’t sleep until I told you how badly I want you right now... good night. ;)

2. I really wish you were here next to me in bed… naked.

3. Just thought you should know, you are my favorite dirty thought… nite nite!

4. [Insert sexy photo of you in bed.] Wish you were here!

5. I’m in bed over here, you’re in bed over there… One of us is in the wrong place.

6. Hey babe, remember that time we [fill in the blank]? Good luck going to sleep now!

7. Good night, love…. Just a reminder, if I’m in your dreams tonight, I like the rough stuff.

8. I’m gonna dream about you tonight, and then tomorrow I’m gonna do all the things I dreamed about to you. Nighty night!

9. My favorite bedtime story involves you, me, and no clothes.

10. I hope you have amazing dreams tonight… I know I will.

11. Go dream about all the filthy things you're gonna do to me IRL tomorrow.

12. Wanna see what I'm wearing to bed tonight? [Photo of you in just a sheet.] Sweet dreams!

13. I wish I could kiss you good night right now.... and not on your lips. ;)

14. Too bad you're not here right now... Oh, wow, I better stop thinking about this or I'll never get to sleep.

15. Hey babe, by the way, next time I see you I want to do [fill in the blank] to me... kay... g'nite. ;)

16. Babe if you were here with me right now, I would rip off your clothes and do insane things to our body. But you're not, so... sleep tight!


17. Just so you know, we would be having so. Much. Fun. If only you were with me right now...

18. I'm touching myself right now and imagining it was you. Wish you were here...

19. I'm going to tell you three things I would do to you if I were there right now. I want you to imagine them while you fall asleep.

20. Sweet dreams, I hope you have "morning would" As in, what "would" I do to you in the morning.

21. I’ve got all this energy and no one to do with it. I mean... nothing to do with it.

22. Heya, just wanted to let you know I’m thinking about how much I love it when you touch me. Sweet dreams!

23. It’s probably good you’re not sleeping over, because if you were here we wouldn’t be sleeping.

24. Wrapping myself around this pillow just isn’t doing it for me. It’s missing all the best parts.

25. My bed feels empty without you in it… so do I.

Maybe it's a little mean of me, but when I’m coming up with a good night text for my partner what I’m really doing is thinking of things that will actually keep them up all night, if ya know what I’m sayin'. And with any of these, it’s pretty much guaranteed to be mission accomplished.