If your love language is physical touch or you live for cute nicknames and quick kisses — being lovey with your boo when you're out on the town may be super important to you. If you're dating someone who is a little private, or your partner tends to keep their feelings (and hands) to themselves when you're out, it's natural to wonder how to get your partner to be more affectionate in public.
You and your boo may like all the same movies or have the same taste in dive bars, but if you navigate PDA differently, it can be easy to feel like you're speaking different languages. Of course, talking to your boo about your needs isn't always easy. Opening up about your expectations and preferences can be a great way to get on the same page with your partner, before any feelings of disconnect pop up. Being open and honest with a boo can take some serious vulnerability, but letting your partner know how to best support you ultimately means getting more support from your boo.
If public affection is important to you, here are three ways to get your partner to understand where you're coming.