If you've ever dated someone who you had seriously hot chemistry with, then you probably know the ~allure~ of the quickie. That almost-need to get it on in the bathroom, closet, or even car is exciting, but what makes that need such a desperate one? The reasons quickies are always thrilling are plenty, but the truth is, they go beyond desire. I interviewed two sexperts who agree that quickies are actually pretty romantic and a lot more complex than they might seem at first.
First of all, let's dive into what a quickie really is. "A quickie is a short sexual encounter that is often preceded by a build up of sexual energy and connection that makes jumping straight into it possible," sex and intimacy coach Irene Fehr tells Elite Daily. "What makes a 'quickie' powerful and satisfying is some form of energetic or emotional foreplay that leads up to it that creates the sense of 'I want you, right here, right now.'"
Whether you have a quickie with your significant other or some cutie you just met at the bar, here's why these encounters are always so satisfying and exciting.