You might think that a one-night stand will be a sexy and spontaneous rendezvous, but often, they follow up falls flat, as your sexual disappointment is filled with regret and uncertainty.
It is your right to enjoy casual sex without judgement, but if you have yet to experience relationship sex, you're missing out.
Sex in a relationship gives you a type of fulfillment that leaves you far more satisfied. Don't believe me? Here is what you're missing out on:
1. Relationship sex is more pleasurable.
When you're in a relationship with someone, your pleasure is as much a priority as theirs. After all, it's your partner's goal to keep you happy. And the more you please your partner, the more pleased you will be.
In a relationship, you're able to have a detailed discussion before getting freaky between the sheets about your likes, dislikes and everything in between. With a one-night stand, you don't have the time nor the energy to go through that.
2. Relationship sex is more consistent.
You should be able to have great sex whenever you want, but the problem with one-night stands is consistency is hardly an option. Sorry, but you just aren't important enough for the other person to schedule your next romp.
When you're in a relationship with someone, the opportunity for sex is there whenever you want, however you want and for as long as you want.
3. Relationship sex is a more intimate experience.
You can't experience true intimacy with a stranger whose name you just learned. Sure, you're connecting physically while hooking up, but not emotionally on any level.
There may be some passion, but without intimacy, the sex won't feel complete.
In a relationship, you have a deep connection with a person you love. And when you're staring deep into the eyes of someone you love, you'll be amazed at how intense sex becomes.
With relationship sex, the experience and pleasure is different. It's just you and your partner in the moment you have together.
4. There are no awkward mornings with relationship sex.
We've all seen the guys and girls walking down the street in their club clothes on a Sunday morning. You've had maybe an hour or two of uncomfortable sleep, and now you have to navigate your way home.
Ladies, your once perfect makeup has melted down your face, your hair is a disaster and you're walking in a tight dress and uncomfortable shoes.
And now, you're trying to walk home without making eye contact with the old woman staring at you with her mouth open.
But with relationships, you just wake up naked next to your partner, then get up and make breakfast. It's pretty great.