If you're starting to fall for an immature guy, the best cure for his ways may be staring you right in the face.
To all of my confident girls out there: The cure is YOU.
Most of us can agree that immaturity in a guy is probably one of the most unattractive qualities he can possibly have. And if he's in his mid- to late-20s, there may be a slim chance of improvement.
You may be captivated by everything else about him, but every once in a while, he's really immature about certain things.
His youthfulness seems so refreshing after dating a string of players, and your attraction to that quality is undeniable.
You know the guy who I'm talking about. He's the one who may whine when he doesn't get his way because he's so used to things working out in his favor.
He relies on his parents too much, and hasn't really thrived in his career (because he may have a so-so job).
He complains a lot, yet doesn't do much to change anything.
He's that dude who makes fun of the guys in his squad who are in serious relationships… until he meets HER.
There's hope: Once he lets the confident chick into his life, it's the beginning of an amazing new chapter.
Here are 11 reasons why she's the best thing that will happen to him, and will essentially save him.
1. She will bring balance to his life.
…And he will do the same to hers.
2. She will clean up his act.
No more fart jokes. Well, at least not casually cracking them at inappropriate times.
3. She will make him want to strive for independence.
Independence is one of the sexiest qualities ever. It won't look too hot for him to always pick up dinner from mom's kitchen. Maybe the two of you will learn how to cook together.
4. She will keep him in check.
He'll get his priorities in line, while realizing what's really most important to him... and playing video games is certainly not number one.
5. She will encourage him to expand his social circle.
He will "grow up" socially and make an effort to involve himself in other friendships besides his main bros.
6. She will make him yearn to be the best version of himself.
…And the version he always wanted to be, deep down.
7. She will pique his interest.
His main girl is not afraid of adventure and spontaneity. When he's with her, she always brings something fun and refreshing to the table.
8. She will relieve some of his insecurities.
Everyone feels better when they love someone and are loved back.
9. She will motivate him.
He finds her positive outlook on life is refreshing.
10. She will teach him how to bend.
He'll also learn how to handle defeat confidently, and that he can't always get what he wants.
11. She will challenge him to want better.
Not just for her, but for him.
In the end, you can't choose who you fall in love with… it just happens. Something about the spontaneity of it all is incredibly beautiful and romantic.
The confident girl and the immature guy contribute balance to their relationship.
He will grow up in the process, because her confidence and mature outlook on life will rub off on him. She will crave (doses of) his immaturity, because it's what makes their love so alive.
They complement each other, and are destined to be together.