If You Were Blindsided By A Breakup, These 7 Women Feel Your Pain


Being dumped is never a walk in the park, but sometimes, there's a silver lining. Sometimes, you've been unhappy for a while. Sometimes, your significant other was cheating on you. Sometimes, you've spent months waiting for the other person to rip the band-aid off for you. But sometimes, the silver lining isn't quite as easy to spot. You know, like the times when you think things are going swimmingly, and then, out of the blue, your partner breaks up with you. It may be hard to find a silver lining when you're blindsided by a breakup like that. However, you're not alone.

In a recent Reddit thread, women shared the stories of the time when they were totally caught off guard by a breakup. Read along and take solace in these stories of people who have shared your pain.

She'd seen him blindside other girls before her.


She was ghosted out of the blue.


She had no idea he wanted to see other girls.


She was dumped without any explanation.


She thought it was just a rough patch, not the end.


She was dumped over the phone by her most serious girlfriend.


She was dumped right after being introduced to her SO's family.


So, yes, maybe you were dumped out of the blue, but I hope you can find solace in the fact that other women have gone through the same pain and have lived to tell the tale. Odds are, you dodged a bullet in the end.

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