Dating someone casually without ever defining the relationship is fine — that is, until you realize you want something official or exclusive. If you're seeking commitment, you should definitely be clear that that's what you want. But what if the person you're dating says they're not ready for a serious relationship... or, agonizingly, isn't sure if they want one with you? You're probably left wondering what to do when he won't commit to a relationship, or if her elusive behavior is because you're not the person she sees herself being with long-term.
Whatever reason the person you're dating has for not committing to you, you should question if it's (1) valid and (2) something that could change in the future (ex: they're studying for the LSAT in all their spare time, but they're taking the test in June).
I spoke to Kailen Rosenberg, Founder of The Lodge Social Club, Elite Matchmaker and Celebrity Love Architect, and matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking Susan Trombetti about the topic, and they both offered their expertise and insight on how you should proceed in this situation. Here's what you need to know.