Time and time again, we've been told that people don't change. That being said, it's hard to give up on the fantasy of changing someone, especially a romantic partner who has habits that are less than lovable. But is it ever actually possible? Can it ever really, truly be done? Can you help your boyfriend or girlfriend change!? In a recent Reddit AskWomen thread, ladies responded with their own personal experiences on the matter and, unfortunately, it looks like the answer to the question usually tends to be "no." Don't believe me? Take their words for it.