Vanilla sex is awesome. Yeah, I said it. Everyone is so worried about pushing boundaries, trying new things, and getting wild in the sheets. But you know what? Vanilla sex rules and it's time we stop acting like it doesn’t. But wait, isn't vanilla sex so boring and the biggest sign that the honeymoon phase is over? No, it does not have to be boring. In fact, there are plenty of little tweaks on your favorite vanilla sex moves you can do if you need to "spice it up" without having to go full sex dungeon. (Unless, of course, that's your thing — and then more power to you.)
Yes, defending vanilla sex is the hill I am willing to die on. Let me tell you why: Because being comfortable and doing things that you know you both enjoy is rad. You can connect, you can be romantic, and you can get off just as much (if not more) going vanilla as you can by going buck wild and trying all kinds of bizarre, awkward, and frankly overrated sex positions. I want an orgasm, not an audition for Cirque du Soleil, and I refuse to be ashamed about it.
So if, like me, you are out and proud about your love of all things vanilla, but wouldn't mind mixing things up a bit, no worries — I got you. Here are few little tweaks to add to your fave sex moves tonight.