For some lucky extroverted folks, sending naughty texts to their SO just comes easily. They're bold, horny, and DGAF, so when they want to get off from afar, they don't hesitate to hit send on their desires and demands. Well, goodie for for them. But what about the rest of us? I'm talking to my fellow introverts who struggle to get our sext on. Whether it's fear of rejection, that someone else will see them, or maybe it's just plain old dirty talk writer's block — whatever the reason may be, when you're already on the shy side, thinking of sexts to send to someone can be almost impossible.
That's where I come in. I, too, was terrified to send my first sext. I'm not a natural dirty talker, and my cheesiness tolerance is set at about a zero, so as you can imagine I struggled a bit at first when attempting to delve into digital dirty talk.
But here's the thing. Once you get over that initial hump (pun intended), it gets so much easier. That's because there's a sense of security in revealing our innermost naughty thoughts from behind the safety of your phone's screen. So embrace it! If you do, before you know it you'll be a very satisfied veteran sexter.
Still not sure how to get started? No sweat. Here are 29 sexty ideas to get your fingers tappin' on your next naughty adventure.
Ease In With Something Naughty — But Nice
Feeling shy about replying to a text, or even kicking things off? You don't have to head straight dirty deep end. Start with something more on the suggestive side. Trust me, once they reply and things heat up, you'll be amazed how quickly you drop the "nice" and go straight for the "naughty."
1. Heyy... wanna📱 🍌 ➡ ️🍩 ?
2. Lets play two truths and a lie: 1. I wanna sext you 2. I want sext you 3. I DON'T wanna sext you.
3. TIL: I can’t (and don't want to) control myself when I’m around you.
4. Just so you know, I can't stop thinking about what we did last night.
5. I can't stop blushing over the dream I had about us last night.
6. I have an idea…. let’s play truth or dare and see where it goes ;)
7. So, I got the cutest new bra today and ... ;)
8. I wish I wasn’t so shy, then I could tell what I'm imagining right now.
9. Fun fact: I can’t stop thinking about what we’d be doing if you were here.
10. Have you heard of this new thing called “sexting”? Hmm I wonder what that might be like ;)
For When You’re Shy But Cheeky AF
Feeling a little bolder? Let your saucy side show by hitting them with a more brazenly sexty messages.
11. If you can guess what I’m wearing right now, I'll take it off.
12. I can't stop picturing how it feels when your hands are on my body.
13. Time to go to yoga and and practice putting my legs behind my head.
14. I’m playing with a new toy right now. It's not an action figure… well maybe it kind of is ;P
15. I wouldn’t be super bummed if you were to send me some nudes… just sayin’.
16. How do you turn me on so much? Even with just a text???
17. Thinking about you and me right now is... dangerous...
18. Yeah I can't text right now, because my thoughts are too dirty to type.
19. If you can guess what I want to do to you right now, I'll do it IRL next time I see you.
20. I cant stop imagining kissing you and biting your lip.
Sext Level: Hold My Beer
Hey, if you're gonna bother sexting at all, I say sext their freakin' face off.
21. Just so you know, I want really want to to sit on your face RN.
22. So, I’m too lazy to touch myself RN. Maybe you should come over and help me out...
23. Wow, you're even bigger than in my fantasies.
24. Hey it's [the current time]. Real questions, do you think it’s too early to masturbate?
25. I miss feeling of your cheeks rubbing agains my inner thighs.
26. Tell me a story... One I can touch myself to.
27. I didn’t know it even possible for someone to get me this wet.
28. I wish you were here so you could take my hands and pin them above my head.
29. Are you turned on? Well too bad, you dont get to come until you beg me for permission.
Well that escalated quickly. But hey, this is how you go from introverted and shy to a sexting goddess extraordinaire in 29 easy steps. Have fun.
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