During a meeting with my manager a few years ago, I complained about a problem I was experiencing. I worked in the credit card division of a major bank. It was well understood that if you wanted to move up within the company, you had to work in a branch first.
Once you got your foot in there, it seemed like the possibilities were endless. However, working in the credit card division meant nothing to branch managers – you may as well have been working for another company. Nearly everybody (myself included) tried to make that transition, but to no avail.
My manager then said, “Just emailing your résumé isn’t good enough. Have you went down to the branch and introduced yourself?
Have you attended one of our job-shadowing programs? Have you taken the Canadian Securities Course? Have you attended any company events where you could potentially meet people that work in the branch? Have you done any training workshops?”
With that piece of wisdom, he sent me on my way. That was over two years ago, but I have never forgotten that message. It's so simple, so obvious, and applies to almost every situation, yet so few act on it. If you are not where you want to be in life, it’s because you didn’t want it bad enough. If you want something bad enough, you will find a way to get it.
People’s lives are wrought with disappointment and failure. To protect our ego, we usually find someone or something to blame, anything that will take the blame away from ourselves. So if you are not happy with your station in life, ask yourself how badly you want something.
How many hours of practice are you willing to put in? How hard are you willing to work? To what lengths are you willing to go? Whatever line in the sand you draw, that is the reason you are not where you want to be. The people who have the job that you want, or have the talent you desire, were willing to go beyond the point you were willing to go.
If you want something, you have to go get it. If you don’t, people are going to assume that you don’t really want it.
In life, you get what you deserve. It’s not all about getting stuff you want either, sometimes it’s about what you give. If you want something badly enough (and perhaps don’t deserve it) then ask yourself, "What do I need to do, to get where I want to be?"
Edward Mullen | Elite.