7 Struggles People Who Only Speak Fluent Sarcasm Go Through On A Daily Basis
Having a sarcastic personality is a great asset; it helps you approach any situation with confidence and ease.
Unfortunately, not everyone in the world appreciates a sarcastic person and honestly that just sucks for those people. How else are you going to be able to deal with the stupid people you encounter on a daily basis?
You have to admit, it's pretty fun to f*ck with them, especially when they don't even realize what is going on.
Sarcastic people usually get along with other sarcastic people because they tend to vibe on the same wavelength. So for all you sarcastic people out there, this is for you...
1. The dilemma when people don't realize you're joking around
You know when you say something that is the furthest thing from serious, but the person you are talking to just doesn't understand your sarcasm?
Try dealing with that daily. You try your hardest to come across in a joking manner, but, for some reason, people just take these "jokes" personally.
I mean, maybe there's some truth hidden behind what you are trying to say, but they aren't seeing any humor in your commentary. Oh well, that's not your problem, now is it?
2. Dealing with emotional situations is never easy for you
It doesn't matter if you're a girl when you have a sarcastic personality; no emotional endeavor is going to be simple for you.
Direct talks about feelings are never easy because you really have a problem taking anything that seriously. This doesn't mean you don't have feelings, but just choose to express them differently as you like to make light of the situation.
Good luck because chances are that whomever you are dealing with is going to be offended, which only makes your sarcasm take a turn for the worst.
3. First impressions are always interesting
You are one of those people someone needs to get to know to love. This is exactly why first impressions are always so tricky for you.
They can either go amazingly or terribly wrong -- there is no in-between. But the thing is the people who love you right off the bat are your kind of people, as they embrace the sarcasm the first moment they encounter it.
The other people? Well, you'll get another chance, but if not, hey, there's more where they came from anyway.
4. Your coping skills are way too on point
When people bring negativity in your life, you basically don't even react anymore. You may have a low tolerance for bullsh*t, but that has prepared you to deal with any and every situation you could possibly encounter.
Sure people may say your sarcasm is a defense mechanism, and they may be right, but I'd rather make the most out of said defense mechanism than sit in a corner crying.
You attack obstacles head on and don't let them set you back. You realize your attitude is the biggest asset in any situation and you and your sarcastic tone are ready for it all.
5. Stupid people only encourage your sarcastic talents
The more stupid people you deal with, the more your sarcastic tendencies increase. You can't flat out yell at a stupid people because that is just socially unacceptable. Instead, you must be passive aggressive with your frustrations and undermine them at every opportunity you get.
How else are they going to be put in their place? I mean it's just common sense...
6. You become the spokesperson for things no one else wants to say, but everyone wants to hear
Having a sarcastic personality means you have a heavy set of balls on you, regardless of the fact that you may actually be a female.
This is a good thing and a bad thing. If you go to dinner and your reservation gets screwed up, you best believe you are leading the movement to get your friends seated.
If two of your friends are fighting, you are the mediator. You are the one who isn't afraid of the truth and actually wonders why people are so bad at expressing how they feel. Sure, you may do it in a weird way, but at least you are doing it, and in the end, isn't that what matters?
7. You absolutely don't know how to accept compliments
Since you can't remember the last time you genuinely and straightforwardly gave a compliment, why the f*ck would anyone say anything sincere?
You know when you do, people are beyond caught off guard and actually take the compliment to heart because it's such a rare occurrence.
But you, on the other hand, have no idea how to accept a compliment, whether you agree with what is being said to you or not.
Instead of saying thank you, you respond in a manner that just disregards the statement all together. And then, of course, you proceed to make fun of that person, as well as yourself.
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