Getting to know everything and anything there is to know about a new person is one of the most fun parts of the beginning stages of a relationship. You're looking for any and all reason to talk to this new special someone, and it feels like a round of 20 Questions is the only way in. As silly as the 20 Questions game may seem, it gets the job done. With all those personal questions thrown in the mix, things go from zero to 100 real quick. From "What's your favorite color?" to "Have you ever had a threesome?" — the possibilities are endless, and that's what makes it so fun. If you're looking for personal questions to ask during 20 Questions that can go past the basics and help you get to know all the dirty details about your new love, look no further.
As eager as you may be to learn all you can about them as quickly as possible, when it comes to asking personal questions about their past, it may be best to start with something on the lighter side. Starting with lightly personal questions and working your way up to the deeper, more personal ones can help your new boo warm up to the direction you're trying to take the conversation in. That way, they're not blindsided when you drop the highly personal question, "What's your sexual fantasy?"
So next time you’re playing 20 Questions and you're tired of the same surface-level asks you tend to gravitate toward, kick it up a notch and consider trying one of these 30 personal inquiries instead.
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