I am not good at hitting on guys. I can hardly even message them first on Bumble. I don't know about you, but I have no idea how to approach a guy IRL.
And apparently, this woman isn't the greatest at it either, as she took to Reddit to ask a bunch of men the best way to make a move on them, saying,
Female here. I'm pretty personable and confident in my looks/personality but I'm shy when it comes to actually approaching a guy, especially if he's in a group. I get nervous and am unsure what to say, so I end up missing my chance (even when I'm pretty sure the guy wouldn't reject me). Any tips or conversation starters would be greatly appreciated!!!
Lucky for her, a bunch of dudes decided to help her out by throwing out their advice for approaching guys while you're out.
This Guy Says To Engage An Entire Group Of Guys
I'm supposed to peg someone?!?! JK, I know what he means.
This Guy Says To Make It Clear Whom You're Interested In
This Guy Says to Give A Specific and Unique Compliment
Hey, that shirt looks great on you...
This Guy Says To Find A Wingwoman
This Guy Wrote A Literal Flirting Manifesto (Get Ready)
Did you get that all down? Need to print it out?
This Guy Says To Act A Little Nervous
I don't need to act nervous. I'm nervous anyway!
This Guy Says To Be Direct
So when it comes to hitting on guys, be direct. Pick out the guy you want, and remember, flattery is everything.
And if that doesn't work, then just spend the rest of your life alone! (Just kidding.)
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