8 Women Share The Legit Reasons Why They Moved In With Their Partners
byCandice Jalili
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Relationships are full of steps. And one of those many steps is the decision to move in with each other. But when are you supposed to do that? In other words, when is the right time to move in with your partner? Well, in a recent Reddit AskWomen thread ladies explored that question by sharing all the deets on when they decided to move in with their partners.
After reading their responses, one thing becomes super clear: the question of when you should move in with your partner really boils down to the reasoning behind the move. As nice as it would be for rule-followers, like myself, to have a hard and fast number of requisite months or years to wait before it's "time" to move in with our partners, that's just blatantly not the case.
As you read the responses below, you'll see that every single one of these women had different reasons for moving in with their partners. They also each wound up moving in with their partners after vastly different amounts of time dating. But no one woman's reasoning is more valid than another's, and that's what's so beautiful here. While their stories are totally different, all of these women all chose to move in with their partners at the time that felt right for them.
They were ready to start a family.
We'd been dating for about a year and a half and during that time we'd spent almost every night together. We'd also gotten to know each other and were both sure we wanted to be together - permanently. We wanted kids and he moved in with me right after I got pregnant; sold his place (mine was a rental) so we could buy a bigger place together.That was 5 years ago and no regrets 😉
She needed a place to crash when she got back from study abroad.
We’d been dating about a year and a half. I had just come back from studying abroad in South America and I needed a place to live while I finished my last year of college. It worked out in the end because we’ve been married 6 years, together 10.
We moved in together when we were 19 and 20. We had been dating for 4 years before we moved in together. Honestly the biggest reason we moved in together was because he was going to University 6 hours from our hometown. I went with him and we moved in together.
At the end of the day, there's no hard and fast rule about why you should move in with your partner. The right time to move in with your partner is when both of you are ready.