The countdown to Valentine's Day officially begins. Before you know it, your Instagram feed will be filled with teddy bears, roses, pink boxes of chocolates, and couples standing hand-in-hand. If you're not in a relationship, Valentine's Day may just be another day to you, but it really doesn't have to be that way. I'm a firm believer that Valentine's Day can be whatever you make of it. In fact, I took a solo trip to Tulum on Valentine's Day. It was honestly the sweetest gift I've given myself, and my story just might convince you to embark on a journey like this, too.
I travel solo frequently, and I've fallen in love with it over the past few years. Even still, there are certain holidays and instances where being alone feels a bit unusual. Christmas and Thanksgiving definitely feel that way, because I've always spent these days surrounded by loved ones. So naturally, I shuddered at the thought of spending Valentine's Day all by myself. Then I realized that I could choose to see this day from a different perspective, and went for it.
I booked a flight to Tulum, Mexico, and I wasn't quite sure what to expect. To my surprise, this solo trip ended up being one of my favorite trips to date, and I think it's something everyone should experience for themselves.
During this trip, I treated myself to things that I usually pass up on. I allowed myself to get a manicure and pedicure. I even experienced a sweat lodge (Temazcal) at Maya Tulum Resort, which left me feeling rejuvenated and refreshed.
The simple act of going for a swim, and even relaxing in my room after a long day of activities, made me feel so good. I learned and really appreciated the importance of treating myself.
Some people may feel alone on Valentine's Day, but I refused to give into that way of thinking. Despite the fact that I was traveling alone, I made an effort to truly see the people around me. These people were potential friends whom I just hadn't met yet, and I wanted to change that.
I met a girl on the beach who was also traveling alone, and we ended up hanging out several times. We partied on the beach and ate delicious tacos from a food truck. I was traveling alone, but I learned that there are so many people to befriend and fish in the sea.