Relationships

20 Women Describe The Last Sext They Sent, & Hello, It's Hot In Here

by Rachel Shatto

Have you ever sexted someone? Have you wanted to? Maybe you'd be into it, but you aren't really sure what to say. I mean, I totally get it. Sometimes the best way to understand the appeal of anything sexual, including sexting, is to hear a firsthand account from people who have actually done it. So, I asked women to describe the last sext they sent, not only because their stories can serve as inspiration for your own sext-y shenanigans — which of course they can — but also because it's hot hot hot.

Is sexting graphic and intense, or is it more lighthearted and flirty? Is it sending nudes, or just a series of eggplants and peaches? The answer, judging by the stories these women shared, is all of the above and more. There is no one way to sext; it really is something very personal and totally different from person to person. It can be anything from photos, to explicit instructions of what they have planned for bae later, to just a suggestive joke to start setting the mood. But enough of my analysis — let's see what these women said about their most recent sext, in their own words.

01Some women preferred to paint a picture with, well, pictures.

Eva Plevier/Stocksy
I sent him a pic of my feet.

u/giggleboxx3000

02

A pic + I told him which particular sex act I was looking forward to the most the next time we hung out.

u/childfree_IPA

03Others were more direct.

“I want to sit on your face”

u/tc88

04

“Tonight you can be as needy as you want."

Francesca*, 25

055.

“I want you to start slow, with your hands on my hips sliding me in and out of you, so I’m still being teased, only getting just a taste of you.”

Annabelle*, 24

06

Leandro Crespi
“I want to ride you, moving in circles around your c*ck, and just ever so gently rubbing my clit against you.”

Mia*, 27

07

“F*ck I want you to feel how wet I am. I want you to be f*cking me and reaching around to play with my boobs.”

Haley, 25

088.

"I’d start rocking my hips, instantly moaning because you feel so good, then I’d start riding you hard.”

Megan*, 25

099.

“Golden Rod of Pussy Pleasure”

u/wyntay

10

“I feel it comin, babe”

u/rolyfuckingdiscopoly

1111.

Ani Dimi/Stocksy
My FWB about five years ago now. We used to have plenty of steamy texting sessions... weren’t really creative, mostly just talked about our past hookups, but we had a lot of good sex together.

u/missrex

1212.

Sexted an older man (17 years my senior) about giving him oral a few months back.

u/renrunner

13When in doubt, there were always emojis.

“👅🍆+👅🌮 💦”

u/skellicatbones

14A sexy link did the trick for some folks.

Does linking a post on Reddit of something sexual count?

u/hangry_potato

15

I sent them a link to the NIN’s song "Closer".

u/Razabeth

16And some women preferred to keep it light and just have fun with it.

Alto Images/Stocksy
“Come over tonight. I wanna boink you.”

u/mycatsnameistilly

1717.

Told my dom all the other funny dom names for him I came up with.

u/walkthewalk2400

18

“Hey I’m free tonight, wanna bang?”

u/MadtownMaven

1919.

“Let's get naked together on my boat tonight.”

u/padthainoodles

2020.

I sent an unbelievably stupid series of gifs detailing the things I wanted to do.., not really sexy at all but made me laugh pretty hard

u/LAANAAAAAA

I guess the real takeaway here is that there really is no wrong way to send a sext, so long as it makes you and bae feel hot AF, just like these bold ladies did.