Warning, this is about to get really, really, really cheesy, but bear with me for a second. I love my boyfriend a lot, and before I loved him a lot, I liked him a lot. Why did I always have such strong feelings for him, you ask? Well, for the most part, it was because of his actions. I had my fair share of guys who would say lots of things, but what made my boyfriend different was that he actually did those awesome things for me. To me, the things guys do for girls they like can be the difference between leading a girl on and actually having feelings for her.
That all being said, I'm speaking from the point of view of someone who actually liked the guy back. When a guy goes out of his way to do something romantic and the feelings aren't returned, things take a turn from cute into cringeworthy. A recent Reddit thread asked guys to think back to the most cringeworthy things they've done to get a girl, and, oh, man, they are painful.
Read along and hang tight, people. Things are about to get cringe-y.
He made her multiple websites.
He legit wrote her a song.
He made her a mix CD.
He read Twilight because he knew it was her favorite.
He told her he liked her and then nervously ran away.
He wrote an essay (complete with a bibliography) about why she should go to prom with him.
He kept buying her gifts, even after she rejected him.
He sent her flowers with a note that said, "You are the one."
He used to write poetry and leave it on girls' desks in high school.
He plunged the toilet after she clogged it.
He wrote her half a poem on AIM and told her she had to hang with him if she wanted the rest.
He gave her advice about a guy she liked.
He became a vegetarian for over a year.
What cringeworthy things have you done for a girl you like? Comment below!
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