Everyone needs a role model- someone to aspire to be like. Role models are an important part of the growing process. How can you develop as a person if you don’t know in which direction you want to be heading?
Having someone that you look up to and admire will help you focus on specific aspects of your life that you feel need some development.
However, it is crucial to pick the right role models. If you pick the wrong ones, it could be detrimental- you could end up turning into someone you hate. Sure, R. Kelly is a great singer. But do you really admire all of his doings? Hopefully not. Generally speaking, it’s better not to admire an individual person, but rather a group of people. Say, people following the same career path.
This way, even if one of these individuals turns out to be skimpy on the morals, you won’t have to purge yourself of everything that you have already learned out of shame.
There is one group of professionals that I find everyone could learn something from- usually quite a bit from. Porn Stars. Now, before you start commenting about how I have gone off the deep end, read the entire article- I have a feeling you’ll agree with me.
Try to forget all of those stereotypes that you have heard: porn stars are drug addicts, they are unhealthy- carry several STDs, have low self-esteem and poor self-image… None of this is true.
There have been studies on the subject and there is a consensus- porn stars are not only healthier than the average person, they have higher self-esteem, more self respect, and are generally much happier than the average person.
Think about it. Porn stars get tested for STDs regularly. They have to stay fit and in shape to look good for the camera. And, most importantly, they are comfortable with their sexuality. Porn stars know what they want and are not afraid to let it be known. There is much that we can learn from these adult film actors and actresses. Here are a few:
Porn Stars Know What They Want
And they aren’t afraid to ask for it. They voice their opinion and usually get what they want. Yes, this is a great quality to have in the bedroom. You want your back-end spanked, say so. You want the shocker- guide his hand. You want to be tied up this time around, blindfold yourself and hand her the handcuffs. This quality, if extended past the bedroom, will completely change your life.
Getting new kitchen tiles installed in your bathroom and decide that the tiles you picked out don’t look quite like you hoped they would? Tell the workers to stop and start from scratch. You’re paying them by the hour; you will have to live with those hideous tiles, not them.
You don’t like your boss’s new idea? Give him one that you think is better- politely. If you really do have a better idea, he or she will appreciate the higher revenue that they will be bringing in, thanks to you. You want things a certain way, let it be known! No Mr. Barista. I said I want TWO dollops of whip cream.
The Key To True Happiness Is Staying Fit And Healthy
I am sure that you’ve heard it before. But it’s true: staying healthy and fit will literally allow you to be happier. Porn stars have to stay in shape for their careers, but I am sure that even if they were to retire, they would keep their exercise regimen.
Exercising on the regular will make you more confident. It will make you feel sexier. It will make you feel better. You will literally be happier. Hell, if the only way you can get yourself to exercise on the regular is to star in pornos- then do it. I’m sure you won’t regret it. Besides, who doesn’t like fucking?
They Do What They Love
While making bank. It is very important to have a job that you looking forward to doing every time you wake up in the morning. Having a job that you love will allow you to perform at your best; you’ll excel faster while doing something that gives you purpose. Money isn’t everything.
I feel that it is better to have a job that you love doing but only pays you medium wage than having a job that you hate that pays you very well. Eventually you won’t want to put up with it any longer. Now, if you can find a job that you love AND get paid amazingly for it, then you really do have it all. Sucking dick for millions doesn’t look so bad anymore, does it?
They Love Sex
We are all nymphos, it's no secret. Our generation loves sex and we love to have a lot of it. You know who else loves sex? Pornstars, duh. They loved sex so much that they managed to make a career out of it. They have sex at all times of the day, at any given place, and with any person that manages to pop-up (no pun intended) in the scene.
From the gardeners, to the stranger on the street, to the boss they hate. They are more than willing to have sex with them regardless of wether or not they are acting. We should all aspire to be doing just the same. Fuck everywhere, at any time, with anyone. Nymphomaniacs for life.
Paul Hudson | Elite.