Guys Reveal Just How Often They Actually Fantasize About Their Female Friends

by Alison Segel
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I have a ton of guy friends. I am a big believer that men and women can have relationships that aren't romantic. The type of men who can't be friends with women are the type of men who only see women as being good for fulfillling sex desires. While some "enlightened" men understand that women do indeed have personalities and brains (I know! Can you believe it?!) that are valuable and worth getting to know, I do have to wonder... do guys fantasize about their friends? To put it bluntly, has my best guy friend ever thought or fantasized about f*cking me.

I guess one woman out there was wondering, too, because she posed this question to a bunch of dudes on Reddit.

We've all been there. It's the classic When Harry Met Sally moment where you look at your BFF and wonder if there could potentially be something more there. It comes down to the age-old question, can men and women actually be friends without sex getting in the way?

I know, without a doubt, that I do not think about most of my guy friends in the sack, and I still wouldn't hook up with the ones I'm mildly attracted to. However, here's what men have to say about how often they fantasize about their female friends, in case you wanted to know. Buckle up, or at least have a barf bag ready.

He Would "Smash" His Friends "In A Heartbeat."

In case you didn't know, "smashing" is the romantic, respectful term for having sex with someone.

He Wants To Bone His Therapist

Brian McEntire

He Divides Women Into Three Categories

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Ah, yes, the only three types of women who exist.

He Would Go After "Anything With A Pulse"

What the hell is it about the word "smash"?

He Thinks Women Are Hookups He Hasn't Hooked Up With Yet

He Fantasizes About Sex But Not Dating

Boris Jovanovic

He Stopped Fantasizing When He Was A Teenager


He Thinks You Should Just Make A Move

Friendship is overrated anyway. F*ck everything you can! The world is your oyster, right? (Wrong.)

I have come to the conclusion after my scientific research on this thread that men... really interested in having sex with anything and everything. Do you agree? Sound off in the comments!

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