Every Tuesday, I put together a new installment for my column, "Boom, Ghosted," and end up having to ask myself the same question: why do guys ghost?
And I don't mean ghost a girl after a couple of dates, I mean completely stop communication with girls they were in real, long-term relationships with.
WHY DO PEOPLE THINK IT'S OK TO JUST BAIL ON A PERSON THEY ARE COMMITTED TO?
Well, six men are helping me answer that question once and for all. Here are their reasons for ghosting girls that they had been dating for six months or longer:
This guy just didn't feel like dealing with it.
This guy got bored.
This guy thought an explanation seemed unnecessary.
This guy saw it as the only way to actually cut her out.
This guy thought she was flirting with other guys.
This guy didn't feel like she wanted a big breakup.
Hopefully this experience brought you one step closer to understanding why that evil maniac just stopped responding to you.
It definitely gave me some insight... but doesn't exactly make me feel any better?