What Do Men Think About During Sex? Real Guys Get Honest About Their Thoughts In Bed


So you and your boyfriend have been together for over a year now. You've officially made your way over from "casual fling" territory to full on bonafide long-term serious RELATIONSHIP. You two have been together for so long that it really does feel like you know everything going through his head. You have become one of those annoying couples who finish each other's sentences and can sit in the car for an hour straight without talking because you know exactly what's going through each other's minds. That being said, what men think about during sex is still kind of a mystery to you, and you'd be lying if you said you weren't curious about what goes through his head from time to time.

I mean, yes, he's a nice guy who loves you to pieces. But you're not an idiot. You know he watches porn every now and then. Are those ladies popping up in his head every now and then? OR is he ever thinking about his ex? Does he notice how pale you've gotten since the summer ended, even though he swears to God he hasn't noticed at all? Is he thinking about that one patch of hair you missed shaving this morning? Or is he genuinely just thinking about how in love he is and how lucky he is to be making love to you? Well, a new Reddit AskMen thread asked dudes to get real about what guys think during sex and, no, your boyfriend might not have participated in this but, boy oh boy, is it a good insight into what's going through a guy's mind during sex with BAE.

He's got two things and two things only on his mind.


He's overcome by his love for her.


He's got another set of two thoughts.


He's thinking about how beautiful she is.


He's thinking about her best friend and swears other guys are too.


No thoughts at all.


Sometimes he thinks about England.


He's wondering who's on her mind.


He's trying so hard not to cum.


He's just focusing on her needs.


This is the best thing that's ever happened to him.


He's thinking about her.


He's also thinking about how hot she is.


She looks beautiful and it feels so good.


Three very poignant thoughts.


He's thinking about what could've been.


Alright, can we all make a pact here to disregard /u/B0000000BS? Also, let's take a deep breath and rejoice in the fact that, for the most part, it seems like these dudes know how lucky they are to be boinking us.

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