
22 Women Reveal How Often They Have Sex With Their Live-In Partners & There’s A Range
I used to assume that when a couple moves in together, that automatically translates to tons and tons of sex all the time. Now that I'm in a long-term relationship of my own, I can see how tons and tons of sex all the time could be a little... well, exhausting. But that doesn't stop me from wondering how often couples who co-habitate are actually doing the deed. Is there a specific number for how often to have sex when living together? Well, a recent Reddit AskWomen thread asked ladies to share how often they have sex with their live-in partners, and I think their answers speak for themselves. If you thought there was one "right" number, think again: every couple finds what works best for them.
1-2, we work opposite shifts half the week.
I mark intercourse pretty consistently in my period tracker app, the statistics say 6.5 times per month so a bit more than once per week? There are weeks with 3+ times and weeks with zero but that is what it averages out to I guess.
He has a lower sex drive than me but it isn't substantially less unless he is under a lot of stress.
We have 2 kids and work opposite shifts to save on childcare. We still manage at least twice a week.
Once or twice. I think it’s a good number. I get bored with sex if we’re having it like every day; this frequency keeps things exciting.
We’ve been together 10 years if that makes any difference. So I think we’re doing pretty alright!
4-7 on average.
~10 - most every night and some mornings.
I mean there's no right number here, whatever people are happy with works.
Maybe once a month. Definitely not a weekly or daily thing.
— xcarex
Most nights, some weekend mornings... so I guess about 6 or 7.
— msstark
Once or twice a week. My BC is a libido killer and work exhausts us both, so we need to capitalize on the weekends.
We're not terribly sexual. Probably once a month or so.
Unfortunately for him I have a low sex drive and we’ve had conflicting schedules most of this year until two weeks ago. He’s also a morning/once a day kind of guy and I’m a before we go to bed/5 times a day once or twice a week kind of girl. So on average I’d say once a week. However there have been entire months where we didn’t. If I don’t feel like it or don’t want to for an extended period of time I try to at least BJ or something. I feel guilty about how little we do and have been wanting to ask this question!
— lolaja
It varies, because I work 60ish hours a week and he travels for work at least 1 week every month. On average, I'd say 3 - 6 times a week. Sometimes that's more than once in a single day, and it's not always full-on intercourse. We both have fairly high sex drives.
We average three times a week but that depends on unpredictable work hours and kids (that hopefully aren't sick and want to sleep in their own beds).
On average, we have sex every 1 - 3 months.
Depends, on average me and my wife have sex once or twice a week. But often if we’re having a bit of a cuddle one of use will often end up playing with the others boobs or do a bit of light fingering (TMI?).
At 2-ish years, newly living together, we were probably at 4-5 times a week.
At 4-ish years, married, we are probably at 3-4 times a week.
But we skip my period week (both of our preference).
Once every 6 months or so, because every week is a new excuse not to.
Probably 5-6 times a week depending on mood/period/stress
We can go a couple weeks without having sex or everyday/night. There is no inbetween
Near daily unless outside circumstances prevent it.
During a “typical week”, it’s every day. However, this week we’ve been moving and have essentially fallen into bed too tired to move.
Together 4 years. At least once a week. At most 3 times a day haha! It really just depends on our schedules/mood
OK, so based on these varying responses I think we can all agree that there is no such thing as a number of times you "should" be having sex with your live-in partner. Whatever works for you and your partner is A-OK.
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