The Cost Of A Date Is Going Viral, But It's Totally Wrong & Tricking Everybody

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When I imagine my perfect date, it usually involves delicious food and wine at a tucked-away spot in my neighborhood. Living in NYC, one of my favorite things to do is scope out new places to eat and explore — and my boyfriend really enjoys this, too. But one thing we’ve both realized is that dating can be freaking expensive, and it’s not always within our budgets. Netflix and chill might get a bad rap, but hey, at least it’s affordable! These tweets about a study of date costs have people on social media freaking out, but as it turns out, the data is a little misleading.

On Aug. 28, Twitter account Only in Boston tweeted out a map of the United States with the average price of a date in all 50 states. The data is attributed to the dating site Match, and prices range from $38.27 in South Dakota to $297.27 in New York. The tweet is going viral and prompting a ton of hilarious responses — like, when did dating get this expensive?! But Elite Daily reached out to Match for clarification and learned that this data doesn’t actually come from Match at all. In fact, it originates from a 24/7 Wall Street report in 2018, which was listed alongside actual Match data in a USA Today story on dating costs. Thus, the confusion ensued.

According to Match’s 2018 Singles in America survey, the real cost of a date is much lower. A spokesperson for Match reveals that a first date typically costs no more than a cup of coffee or a few drinks at the bar. However, singles do spend an average of $1,596 a year on their dating lives, which includes everything from new date night outfits to dating app costs. If you break that down into one date a week, it costs $30.96 per date — a far cry from the Twitter infographic numbers.

The responses on Twitter are true comedic gold, and a good reminder that you don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a great time on a date. All it takes is a willingness to get to know one another.

Not Feeling It

Let's be real, the thought of a first date costing this much is alarming.

Moving to SD

Maybe I can find a sale on flights?

Can't Deal

Ain't nobody got time for this.

The True Cost

Sorry, Californians, I see your sacrifice.


Because if you have $300 to spend, that sh*t should be used to treat yourself.

Kansas Proud

Shoutout to Kansas for the affordable date night options!

Single Forever

Honestly, time to give up while you're still ahead.

Sorry, Ohio

Well... there's definitely enough stuff to do to spend $80, apparently.

Chipotle and Chill?

I know guac is extra, but I'm going all out.

Coupon Cutting

Why spend $$$ when great deals are right at your fingertips?

So Many Tacos

Think of how many meals you could get out of this!

Don't Forget D.C.

Washington D.C. isn't included in this list, but that doesn't mean it isn't costly.

Keeping It Simple

This guy knows his budget, and he's sticking to it.

Mississippi Struggles

Yikes — maybe it's time to order takeout?

The Truth Revealed

Honestly, this explains why people ghost.

Makes No Sense

Where are these people even going for their date nights?

Clearly, folks on Twitter know that you don't need to spend this much money to have an enjoyable dating life. Sometimes the simplest things end up being the most fun. And even Match says dating can be more affordable than you might think from this infographic.

But seriously — ice cream and a picnic in the park, anyone?