The sexiest emotion a woman can possess is passion. I don’t mean just being a passionate lover, although that’ll definitely get any guy’s attention in the beginning of a relationship. But in order to keep that attention, a woman needs to have a passion and eagerness to achieve something in her life; that thirst for knowledge and personal growth.
Beauty can only last for a certain period of time until the next pretty princess comes along and he turns his attention to her instead.
So what is it that will intrigue a man and set you apart from the thousands of young women in your playing field? It’s the ability to set a goal in your life, be passionate about that goal, and have enough gumption to fulfill it as well as build your aptitude. Think about it. There’s nothing sexier than an intelligent man who knows what he wants, sets goals, and ultimately gets what he set out to achieve. Guess what? The same concept goes for females.
In a society that’s filled with so many stereotypical, shallow and ditsy 20 somethings, it’s actually refreshing for a man to find someone who can talk about something other than the latest Louboutin collection. Men (not boys) are goal oriented beings so it makes sense that they want their women to be able to relate to their success.
What’s the point in coming home from a long day at work and answering the question, “Honey, how was your day?” to someone who doesn’t know a thing about what it means to strive towards something or has never achieved a goal for herself.
There’s no relation there. Yes, you can keep up a relationship with physical infatuation for a short period of time, but the intellectual connection between two people is what keeps a relationship going for the long run.
Let’s face it, men like to show off. This doesn’t exclude their women. What’s better than having a woman who is more than just a pretty face but is actually striving to go somewhere in life? Someone who is not only his arm candy at an event, but who can make a conversation with his boss or fellow peers?
When he’s talking about you to his friends (yes, guys talk) he wants to feel proud of you. You think he wants to say, “Oh, my girlfriend’s passion is tanning and online shopping?” Doubt it. A man wants to take pride in his lady because ultimately she is the extension of his choices and tastes.
If you want a smart, sexy man in your life for good, you have to start becoming his counterpart. For those of you that think he’ll be intimidated by your intelligence, then sorry, he doesn’t have the balls you thought he did and definitely is not the man for you. But what’s most important, ladies, is that you achieve your goals for yourselves before anyone else, and you’ll exude that sexy confidence that’ll peak any guy’s interest and keep it.
Diana Klebanov | Elite.