Guys Reveal The 11 Things That Made Them Realize Their Partner Wasn't "The One"

by Candice Jalili

We hear a lot about the usually sweet moment when people just knew their partner was the one. But what about the other sadder moment? What about the times when people realize that maybe the person they've spent all this time thinking was "the one" actually wasn't the one at all.

We don't hear about those moments as much, do we? This is likely because we're all terrified of it. And even after that moment inevitably happens for some folks, it's too sad to talk about.

Well, a few brave men on Reddit responded to a thread asking them about the moment they knew their SO wasn't the one for them. These guys got brutally honest with their answers. And I share some of the most heart-wrenchingly real ones here with you:

Being alone was better than being with her.

She pulled away.

She cheated on him with his best friend.

She kept placing the blame on him.

She went a week without making an effort to talk to him.

They didn't want the same things.

She wished death upon his dog.

She didn't support his new healthy lifestyle.

She doubted his rape.

He couldn't handle her guilty pleasure.

He wasn't over his ex.

All right, now, don't get too down after reading what these guys had to say! Just remember, every breakup is just the beginning of something new and better. There's always a silver lining.

And of course, just because someone isn't "the one" for you, doesn't mean your one isn't out there somewhere.

Check out the “Best of Elite Daily” stream in the Bustle App for more stories just like this!