Kylah Benes-Trapp

This Girl Was Ghosted By A Guy Who Took Her Virginity


Ah, ghosting. It's the dating phenomenon that happens when people are too cowardly to actually end things with the people they've been seeing, so they choose to just… disappear instead.

Ghosters are idiots. But if you've ever been ghosted, know that you're not alone.

In this weekly column, I share a tale of a time a reader was ghosted (with accompanying screenshots) so you can see the last text that was sent or words that were uttered before someone decided to disappear forever. I present to you: Boom, Ghosted.

Today we have Alexis* who was ghosted by the guy who took her virginity. Yes, that's right. You read it correctly. This guy might actually be the living worst. But that's just my opinion.

Here's the story from Alexis's point of view:

Now that you have all of the necessary backstory, here is the ghosting in all of its glory (or lack there of):


So, what do you think? Do you think this guy is the absolute worst human being to have ever walked this earth, like I do? Or maybe you see where he was coming from? In which case, I would LOVE for you to explain it to me.

Maybe you're with Alexis and just think he was busy or not a huge ZBB fan. Maybe you've gone through something exactly like this. Either way, comment here and let's talk it out.

* Name has been changed.