Kylah Benes-Trapp

This Girl Was Ghosted By Her Long-Distance, Serious Boyfriend


This week, we have Anya*. She was ghosted by her long-distance boyfriend after two and a half months of officially dating:


I get a lot of these submissions. I never understand why anyone would think it's OK to straight-up ghost someone they cared about in any capacity.

But I do take into account the possibility that, perhaps, the person didn't care about the person they ghosted in any capacity.

And a lot of the time, with couples who were never officially dating or anything, I can wrap my head around that possibility. But for couples like this, who were in a full-on relationship, I am just completely FLOORED.

First of all, he went so far as to ask her to be his girlfriend. Then, he told her he was falling in love with her. THEN, he discussed the possibility of her moving to his city to be with him!

Then he decides to ghost her?! That's just pure evil, as far as I'm concerned.

Does anyone get where he's coming from? If so, please enlighten me. Or maybe you've been in Anya's position? I'd love to hear your story!

*Name has been changed.