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9 Times Your Best Friend Is Actually The Sister You Never Had

By Alani Vargas
We’ve all heard the saying, “blood is thicker than water,” and it’s usually true. My family is my ride or die, my all-or-nothing, my lifeline. But sometimes, blood doesn’t mean much; my father is none of these things to me, whereas some of my best…

18 Reasons Why I’d Never Want To Be 18 Again

By Alexandra Strickler
Life at 18 years old certainly has its ups and downs. But, if I'm speaking on my own personal experiences at that age, the downs significantly outweighed the ups. As shitty as life sometimes was for 18-year-old me, I wouldn't change any of it,…

Men Reveal When They've Said 'It's Not You, It's Me' And Weren't Lying About It

By Candice Jalili
"It's not you, it's me," is probably the most textbook breakup line there is. It's also probably the worst line anyone can give you because, well, it sounds like a pity lie. You're DUMPING me so of freaking course it has something to do with me. To…

Why You Should Never Refer To Your Ex As A 'Friend' Once You Break Up

By Erica Mariera
In a recent interview on the radio show "Angie Martinez," rapper TI talked about his long-term relationship with his wife Tameka "Tiny" Cottle, following cheating rumors and a divorce attempt. He also claimed everything is still amicable, despite…

12 Mariah Carey Songs That Will Get You Through Any Breakup

By Ericka Smith
Love just hasn't been good to Mariah Carey lately. After calling it quits with her billionaire fiancé James Packer last year, MiMi fell head over heels for her backup dancer Bryan Tanaka. Unfortunately, that love story was short lived because the…

5 Signs A Guy Is Only Using You For Sex, According To A Professional Matchmaker

By Alessandra Conti
Boy meets girl.  Boy has sex with girl. Girl wonders if boy is only using her for sex. With dating apps, bread-crumbing, ghosting, moonlighting and all of the complicated scenarios playing out in our modern culture, things can get confusing when it…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Reveal What To Do When Friends With Benefits Gets Messy

By Adam Shadows
Hi Nice Guy and Fuckboy, I started a friendship with someone (let's call him Paul*) almost a year ago, after we both recently exited unsatisfying relationships. We would confide in each other about everything. Our text message conversations lasted…

5 Reasons Every Girl Needs To Date A Jerk At Least Once In Her Life

By Unwritten
I think the majority of girls have been in toxic relationships before, or have been with a guy who didn't value them for who they really are. After these heartbreaks, we sometimes wish we never met that fuckboy to begin with. At least that way, we…

8 Reasons You’ll Be Way More Confident In Your 30s Than You Were In Your 20s

By Abbey Finch
Getting older used to horrify me. Wrinkles, responsibilities, being boring — the whole package seemed really unappealing. But, now that I'm in my 29th year and reaching the third decade of life, I'm not dreading it the way I used to. In a weird…

5 Signs The Nice Guy You're Dating Is Turning Into A Fuckboy

By Jasmine Vaughn-Hall
No one likes a fuckboy... except maybe the fuckboy himself. But like is the case with all living things, an evolution takes place. The fuckboy is not exempt from this. You see, there's some deceitful sorcery going on: The nice guy you thought you…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Reveal How To Go From Being His Option To His Top Choice

By Adam Shadows
Dear Nice Guy and Fuckboy, My name is Chelsea, and I am 22 years old from Los Angeles. I'm currently having relationship drama with a guy I've never officially been with. We've been on and off for the past three years. He's never been "sure" of our…

Your Next Breakup Will Be Your Own Fault If You Do These 3 Things

By Lucy
I'd like to start by getting a few things off my chest: I'm the worst kind of millennial. If I'm being honest, I was born closer to the bi-centennial than I was to 1990, I repeatedly refer to things as #triggering and I tag my friends in upwards of…

9 Signs Your Crush Is Undateable, As Told By Donald Trump Tweets

By Marquaysa Battle
A fuckboy can either be easy-to-spot or hiding in plain sight. Both are chronic time-wasters, but the latter are by far the most dangerous. They'll make you fall in love (or passionate lust) and before you know it, you're entangled with the biggest…

What I Got Out Of Using Tinder And Why It Made Me Never Want To Use It Again

By marcey rizzetta
I had my first encounter with Tinder three years ago when I was at a bar with my best guy friend. While I knew he never had a shortage of women to go home with, I didn't know his latest ploy was finding them on an app that selected and located them…

What I Learned From Accidentally Going On A Date With A 40-Year-Old

By Piper Donnelly
Dating is hard. I think we can all agree this is a concrete fact of life. Case in point: I ended up on a date with a 40-year-old. How, you ask? Well, tequila mostly. And the experience made me realize a few things about dating. I met this dude six…

10 Chuck Bass Quotes That Will Make You Believe In Your Shot At Love This Year

By Alexa Mellardo
Oh, Chuck Bass, the OG fuckboy who toyed with all of our young, still fragile hearts. Most “Gossip Girl” fans had a love/hate relationship with the guy. We despised his conniving, Basshole ways at first, then fell irrevocably in love with him when…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Reveal Signs He's Leading You On Because He Wants To Commit

By Adam Shadows
Dear Nice Guy and Fuckboy, My name is Nicole,* and I'm 26 from Houston. I'm having relationship drama with this guy who I really connect with, but he's unsure whether or not he's ready to commit. I've been seeing this guy J* on and off for a little…

The Terrifying Moment You Realize You've Spent Your Whole Life Drunk Or Hungover

By Zara Barrie
The first time I ever got wasted, I was a skinny adolescent living in the affluent suburbs of Connecticut. It was New Year's Eve, and we had just raided Lilly's* parents' liquor cabinet... because we were bored adolescents living in suburban…

7 Things We Let Drake Get Away With Just Because He's Drake

By Joseph Milord
Finally (FINALLY!) Drake's new album came out this weekend. Now that the long wait for "More Life" is over, something else begins: the sequence of thoughts that make us realize we really love Aubrey Graham... and really hate him at the same damn…

7 Moments You Only Have With Your BFF That Define Girl Power

By Marquaysa Battle
Where would we be without our BFFs? Having great girlfriends — one, at least— is a necessity if you plan to make it through this life (and these fuckboys) in one piece. Not only are they the people who know you inside and out, but they're also the…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Discuss Why Missing Someone From Your Past Is Risky

By Adam Shadows
Hello, So I have a problem that has left me feeling stuck in a rut. I dated this guy for almost five years. He was my first serious relationship and the person I lost my virginity to. I was completely in love with him, and even when we fought, it…

7 Signs Your 'Woke Bae' Is Actually A Fuckboy In Disguise

By Marquaysa Battle
So you met a guy who is an actual, factual feminist. Like, he name drops "male privilege" on dates and says he "loves that Lena Dunham girl." He even suggested you go see "Hidden Figures" together because he wants to support a film about strong…

What Happens When All Your Friends Are Getting Married And You're Still Single AF

By Tristen Lee
We go through our teens blissfully unaware of the huge changes in life ahead of us. We seek comfort in the notion that our friend groups will never change, and someday, we'll be swept off our feet by the men (or women) of our dreams, all at the same…

Being Both Traditional And A Feminist Comes With Mixed Feelings Like These

By Fernanda Calvo
I grew up in a home where gender roles were very much respected. My dad did all the breadwinning, and my mother did all the child-rearing and home-making. What I saw growing up taught me women belonged at home with the children, and their main duty…

'He's Nice': 14 Things Girls Say About Guys We Don't Actually Like

By Candice Jalili
I went through a phase where I would try to convince myself and my friends that I liked guys I actually had no real interest in. And one day, my best friend Annie finally called me out for it. I had just started hooking up with a new guy, and she…

4 Simple Acts Of Chivalry To Help You Be More Of A Gentleman, According To A Guy

By Walter Yeates
As a journalist who takes pride in presenting stories that are objective, illustrate thoughtful examples and carefully explain nuanced topics, the recent trend around the discussion of female bodies, female intellect and a woman's place in society…

Why Alpha Females Are Actually The Most Sensitive People On The Planet

By Zara Barrie
Anytime anyone refers to me as an “alpha female,” I fall ill with an irrepressible bout of imposter syndrome. I'm the type of lady who can't hold back either, so I'll usually dramatically scream, “NO. I'm NOT an alpha female!" to any innocent person…

I Date Women Like My Dad: 5 'Straight Girl Issues' I Have Even Though I'm A Lesbian

By Zara Barrie
"Oh, I never worry about sleeping with a girl after the first date!" I bitchily purred to my straight friends one hungover Sunday afternoon. "Lesbians don't slut shame each other the same way men do to women." I had caught them exchanging worried…

25 Things You Learn About Dating When You're Single And 25

By Bianca Mendez
Once upon a time (or, like, four years ago), I was 21 years old, fresh out of a relationship and enjoying all the aspects of single-hood with my other single friends. We spent our weekends downing mimosas during bottomless brunch, scouting the…

What To Ask Yourself If You Want Your Ex Back, According To A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy

By Adam Shadows
So my ex and I broke up almost two years ago after dating for about two years. When we first broke up, we were awful to each other. He would tell his friends I was a "crazy bitch." Then, I'd find out and have sex with one of his friends to get back…

The 4 Subtle Clues The Guy You're Seeing Isn't Really That Into You

By Unwritten
New relationships are always scary and a little tumultuous in the beginning, but not everyone is worth your time. This is especially true of the fuckboys out there who are trying to waste your time with mind games. In this new dating world with…

Why You Were Ghosted, As Told By A Serial Ghoster

By Seth Borkowski
It wasn't until I started reading dozens of articles about ghosting that I realized I am a "ghoster." Surely, the least anyone can do when they aren't interested in moving forward with someone would be to politely inform them. However, I would be…

Confessions Of A F*ckboy: Why You're Ruining Your Own Dating Life Without Knowing It

By Adam Shadows
Brianna peered around discouragingly as we waited shoulder to shoulder on the beer pong line. She sighed. “Fuckboys everywhere," she said. "Like in 'The Lion King.' Everywhere the light touches." “What percentage of the general population do you…

The Real Reason Women Love 'Fifty Shades' Even If They Aren't Into BDSM

By Unwritten
Like many, I took it upon myself to see "Fifty Shades Darker" this past week, and unlike most, I will openly admit I loved it. Now, before you call me a closet freak or a supporter of male dominance and S&M, I have my reasons why I am Team Grey (or…

You Can Be Both A Party Girl And A Girl Boss

By Zara Barrie
Contrary to popular belief, you can be both a wild, outrageous, champagne-swilling, ripped-fishnet-wearing, bright-red-lipstick-sporting, shiny-black-leather-quilted-Chanel-bag-clutching, reigning queen of the dance floor, fiercely fabulous party…

10 Blair Waldorf Quotes To Get You Through Life's Toughest Situations

By Danielle Cuaycong
Long gone are the Wednesday nights I spent confused by Serena van der Woodsen's love life, despising Jenny's wild antics and admiring Blair Waldorf's preppy attire. Albeit the trend of headbands has passed into oblivion and flip phones are…

Everyone Thinks New Male American Girl Doll Looks Exactly Like A Bro They've Dated

By Candice Jalili
American Girl just released their newest line of dolls, and one of them is — wait for it — A BOY. His name is Logan, and he's a drummer who wears a flannel shirt. Director of Public Relations at American Girl Julie Parks said to The Huffington Post,…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Reveal Why Guys Lie About Not Knowing What They Want

By Adam Shadows
Dear Nice Guy and Fuckboy, I met this guy at a local bar. I am 23, and he is 25. When we initially met we were both really drunk. We chatted, exchanged numbers, and later in the night, I realized he was only trying to take me home, so I wrote him…

Confessions Of A F*ckboy: 8 Texts Guys Send You After A First Date And What They Mean

By Adam Shadows
There's this feeling that washes over you when a date is going well. It's this sudden rush of invincibility, and for a minute, it tricks you into thinking you're in control of your own destiny. Which is why it makes so little sense how, typically…

Woman's Realization That Tinder Guy Looks Like Croissant Has Internet In Tears

By Kaylin Pound
Dating apps like Tinder tend to be full of flaky people. If you don't believe me, just ask Katie McCarthy. McCarthy is a 27-year-old woman from Stockton-on-Tees, England, who recently found herself single after calling it quits with her partner of…

We Rewrote The Best Quotes From 'The Notebook' To Reflect Dating In 2017

By Aly Vander Hayden
It's been over a decade since "The Notebook" first hit theaters, but the romance between Noah and Allie is still breaking hearts today. But, that's mainly because their relationship was a manufactured illusion that convinced 13-year-old girls love…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Reveal What Happens After You Snoop Through Your Guy's Phone

By Adam Shadows
Hi guys, So I need your help. I was talking to this guy, who was a complete fuckboy, but like every other girl, I thought I could change him. For two months straight, we hung out practically every day, went on dates and spent many nights at his…

Why Guys Don't Care At All About Finding Someone For Cuffing Season

By Scott Spinelli
Recently, a friend and I chatted about his new relationship, and he described how he met the girl, how long they dated, what she looks like and how much he really enjoys being with her. I asked him if he thought this girl might be the one. And if he…
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11 Times When The Cast Of 'Girls' Spoke Our Truth

By Suzanne McKenzie
Regardless of what social media tells us, life in your 20s isn't all boozing on rooftops and first-class trips to Thailand. (Really, though, can someone put an embargo on Instagram bragging? Thanks in advance.) In reality, navigating this decade of…

Ways To Enjoy Your New Single Life After You've Just Left A Cheater

By Kelli Boyle
Our first submission is from Anna*, a recently single woman who was cheated on after dating a guy for two and half years. This douchebag did a number on her self-confidence, so she came to us for advice on how to move forward with her single life…

Shallow Things You Could Do To Make Yourself Feel Hot Right Now

By Zara Barrie
Do you feel like, with all the epic chaos swirling through the world, you've somehow lost your sexuality in the thick of the 2017 madness? Do you feel bloated, teary-eyed, red-faced and fatigued? Are you exhausted and freezing to the death in the…

All The Ways To Show Your Undying Love For Your Single Friends On Valentine's Day

By Zara Barrie
I don't care if you're in an ~amazing~, super-loving, gorgeously perfect, wildly passionate relationship. I don't care if you're as single a dollar bill, either. Valentine's Day isn't about sitting at an overpriced, candlelit dinner looking into the…

A Nice Guy And A F*ckboy Reveal Why Girls Who Try Too Hard To Date Are Still Single

By Adam Shadows
Hey guys, I thought I'd hit you up about an issue that has been on my mind the last month or so. I am a fan of both your work and your perspective on things. Dare I say, you've both opened up my perspective on guys and the whole dating world and…

7 Truths You Need To Hear If You Ever Want To Learn To Let Go

By Taylor Sloan
There are so many things to learn in your 20s that no self-help book can explain to you. My mother calls these years “stepping stones” because really, that's what they are. I'm not an expert on how everyone's 20s will go. Each person will embark on…

7 Anti-Valentine's Day Things To Do On Valentine's Day To Express Your Cynicism

By Zara Barrie
Do all those sparkly, cheap-looking, pink plastic Valentine's Day hearts that litter the month of February just fuel you with the irrepressible desire to VOMIT? Does watching all of your coupled up friends — the ones who are in dysfunctional,…