Paul Hudson

A young writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur, Paul Hudson (@MrPaulHudson) has been writing for Elite Daily nearly since the start. He primarily addresses the successes and downfalls of love and life.

Why You Should Meet Your SO In Real Life, Not On A Dating App

ByPaul Hudson
Do you ever take the time in your day to stop and consider the way those around you see the world? Each conscious existence is composed of experiences and thoughts. Each person having different experiences and thoughts. It's easy to brush this off…

Everything You Want To Say To The Person You'll Never Get Over

ByPaul Hudson
Dear You, I think back at the last few years, the first of many to be spent without you. It's crazy realizing that you haven't been a part of them at all. I sometimes still find it difficult to accept that this is the way things are going to be -…

If You Say These 3 Things To Single People, Literally Stop Right Now

ByPaul Hudson
With my 28th birthday approaching rapidly, my family and friends have taken to convincing me that I need to find a girlfriend ASAP. You know, as if I don't write about dating and relationships for a living and whatnot. Of course, they're just trying…

6 Ways Heartbreak Actually Benefits You, Even Through All The Pain

ByPaul Hudson
Heartbreak blows. Sure, that's not the most magical opening sentence, but tell me that's not a great way of describing it. Or maybe I just feel that way because I've dealt with it for so long, and I've exhausted all those emotions that used to drive…

3 Questions Single People Need To Ask Themselves Before They Enter A Relationship

ByPaul Hudson
I feel like a bit of a dick. Recently, I met this beautiful girl at a tech conference. She seemed smart, interesting and also happened to be a writer, which is definitely a sign of potential. However, I found that I had a problem. Even though she…

5 Ways To Play Hard To Get That Will Actually Work

ByPaul Hudson
Playing hard to get may seem pointless, but it's not. When done correctly, it gives the relationship a bit of extra excitement. The problem with playing hard to get is that it backfires sometimes. Whoever was playing hard to get was playing…

Why Men Feel Heartbreak Harder Than Women

ByPaul Hudson
Men and women are the same in that we all eat, sleep, breathe and bleed. We're all capable of the same cognitive thought. Yet, when it comes to the way we experience life, our realities are drastically different. We're raised differently. Girls are…

3 Reasons Why Strong People Have The Most Complicated Pasts

ByPaul Hudson
What does it mean to be strong? It's not the same thing that it meant thousands of years ago. Today, we're less concerned with physical strength than we are with cognitive strength. We're less concerned with how heavy of a rock we can pick…

You're Not Afraid Of The Future, You're Afraid Of Repeating The Past

ByPaul Hudson
Most of us don't have the courage to admit this, but life is very scary. Fear is a necessary part of life. Our psyche depends on it to hold us together. Without fear, we die. Surely, there must be some sort of logic to us being programmed with this…

6 Things You Should Never Stop Asking For In Your Relationship

ByPaul Hudson
Relationships are give and take. You give your time, thoughts, consideration, care and love to your partner -- and then you expect something in return. But people are different. Some of us give more, while others give less. Some expect to receive…

You Don't Need To Get Over Your Ex, But You Need To Move On

ByPaul Hudson
One of the hardest things I've had to do in my life is learn how to move on. It's simple in theory, but then you meet someone you think you're going to spend your life with, someone you convince yourself is right for you, who breaks your heart. And…

If You Do These 6 Things In A Relationship, You'll Drive Your Partner Away

ByPaul Hudson
As I'm sure you've come to realize on your own, it's very easy to overlook the effect individuals have on us. This is especially commonplace when love is involved. Overlooking our partners' flaws and how they really make us feel -- even if it's…

5 Signs You're Just Not The One For Him

ByPaul Hudson
While I'm not entirely certain I believe in the idea of soulmates, I do believe that some couples are better together than others. Whether you go well together because of some ethereal bond or because your edges complement each other like two puzzle…

Why You Need To Stop Thinking You'll Be The One To Change Him

ByPaul Hudson
Can people change? Or do we just get older, becoming more and more stuck in our ways with each passing year? If people can change, does that mean that they're changeable? Can you change someone? If you've ever been in an unhappy relationship, these…

6 Signs That He's Just Not That Into You

ByPaul Hudson
It can be difficult to figure out whether or not a guy really likes you. It's hard mainly because most guys are willing to tell you whatever you need to hear in order to continue having sex with you. To make things worse, people have a way of seeing…

If Your Boyfriend Does These 8 Things, He's In Love With You

ByPaul Hudson
Falling in love is a beautiful thing. But it can also cause you bit of stress. You want to let yourself fall, but there's one question holding you back: Does your partner love you? One day, you may learn to love selflessly. You may learn to love…

Why Being A Player Is Easy Until You Find Real Love

ByPaul Hudson
I never considered myself a player. Although I know for a fact many women would disagree. Like countless Millennials, I enjoy having sex, and I'm sexually open. I enjoy the company of a woman, even if it's only for a night or two. And not just for…

If You Feel Like You're Ready To Give Up, You Have To Make A Change

ByPaul Hudson
I have a confession to make. Rather recently, I came very close to the edge. The edge is that last foothold between you and rock bottom. It's the last solid ground you get before you fall into that darkest of pits. I've heard stories about people…

9 Non-Sexual Things That Make A Woman Sexy AF To A Man

ByPaul Hudson
Sexiness, much more than beauty, is very subjective. What I find sexy, you may not find sexy -- and vice versa. There's a strong correlation between what we find attractive and social status/financial stability. Having nice clothes, being groomed,…

This Is Exactly How To Deal With Being Rejected

ByPaul Hudson
If there is one thing that most people can't stand, one thing that almost always gets an intense, emotional response, it's rejection. We can't stand rejection. It hurts us. It angers us. And it can make us incredibly insecure. There are some people…