Joe Elvin

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Joe Elvin writes dating advice for www.thelondondater.co.uk - the website which sends unique, fun London date ideas straight to your inbox every Monday.

Guys: Why 2017 Is The Year To Be Fearless And Date Out Of 'Your League'

Ever seen a breathtakingly beautiful woman and not said anything because she was "out of your league?" If you have, slap yourself out of it. Seriously, this isn't a concept you should even think about. My mate recently joked how January is the best…

Why Alone Time Is The Key Ingredient To A Lasting Relationship

Being one half of that perfect couple... the couple still in the honeymoon period, years after that first passionate kiss. Having that long-lasting relationship, where you still lust after one another like lovesick teenagers. It's what every man and…

This Is How You Lose All Your Inhibitions Without Getting Drunk

Increased self-confidence, improved social skills, no worries about your appearance, your problems or what other people think of you are just some of the things alcohol helps strip away. However, imagine being able to access all the benefits of…

This Is How Your Ego Is Stopping You From Getting What You Want

I like to think of him as a miniature version of myself. He's wearing a suit with the top button done up too tight. There's a frown on his face and a massive broomstick up his behind. He's my ego. On the surface, he seems like a great guy. He never…

Take The Plunge: 5 Reasons Skydiving Is Exactly Like Falling In Love

You're staring down at the clouds. They've never seemed so close before. Sweat drips as your eyes widen at the sight of the never-ending sky. Your legs dangle precariously from the edge. The wind blows harder. You feel your heart beat faster. You're…

6 Things I Learned About What Women Want In My Year Of Not Getting Laid

I still remember the smirk on her face when my whole world came crashing down. I'd been strong, refusing to fall for her tears. I would never forgive such betrayal. Then, her phone lit up. It had a wallpaper that still featuring us cuddling on our…

Don't Think: 5 Secrets To Successfully Approaching Women

How many beautiful women have you let waltz out of your life before they were even in it? She could have been your blushing bride, but you didn't even speak because you "didn't know what to say." Back in the day, I let hundreds of babes breeze by…

Buck Up: 8 Ways To Shift Your Attitude And Kick Your Fear Of Hot Women

Beautiful ladies, I used to feel painstakingly pathetic standing in the same room as you. I would become shaken, self-conscious and short of breath, hysterically searching my brain for something to say. All I ever found were nightmares of…

Time To Get Serious: 5 Signs Your Days As A Player Are Numbered

Players have a bad reputation and, perhaps, rightly so. By definition, they're dishonest men who seduce women despite having no intention of committing to a relationship. Breaking women's hearts ain't the best way to make friends, but every man…

4 Undeniable Facts Of Life To Help You Recover From Any Setback

In life, there will always be heartbreak, disappointment and despair. There's no hiding from it. People reading this article has had bad things happen to them. There will always be ups and downs. Sometimes, during the down spells, it can feel like…