Cristina Conti


Cristina Conti is a personal Matchmaker at Matchmakers In The City in Beverly Hills, New York, and San Francisco. Cristina has published articles on love and relationships on,, Focus Magazine, among others. Visit for more.

If You Do These 5 Things, You're The Problem With Your Relationship

By Cristina Conti
It takes an incredibly self-aware woman to admit she has made a mistake. I know for me, when I realize I've been doing something wrong, I get frustrated with myself and all I want to do is hibernate and binge-watch a Netflix series. As a…

6 Telltale Signs Your SO's Still Hung Up On An Ex, According To A Matchmaker

By Cristina Conti
We now live in a time where the person who you'll marry is rarely your first relationship. Of course, this wasn't always the case. In centuries past, men and women had separate spheres of existence and were only supposed to interact in controlled…

Stop Sabotaging Your Dating Life With These 7 Easy Tips

By Cristina Conti
In my former single days, an elegant older woman friend would remind me, “Let him find you.” This puzzled me.  At a time when our culture grooms women to achieve, taking a backseat in your love life can feel frustrating. You want to jump ahead and…

7 Ways To Get Close With Your SO While Still Keeping The Mystery Alive

By Cristina Conti
As a personal Matchmaker in Beverly Hills, I hear all the time that women want a powerful, confident man, and men want a woman who's passionate about something in her life, other than them. But typically, both men and women want a partner with some…

7 Ways To Get Him To Ask You Out Without Even Talking To Him

By Cristina Conti
The most common complaint I hear from the smart, beautiful women I work with is that men always seem intimidated by them. I get it; before I became a professional matchmaker, I felt that, too. I'd dress up with perfectly applied makeup, only to face…

Angelina Jolie Isn't Alone: How To Move On If He's Not 'The One' After All

By Cristina Conti
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie's divorce has shaken all of us. The power couple of our generation has crumbled. Brangelina supporters' dreams of true love have been squashed. Many women who've crushed on Brad are now feeling unsettled by the rumors…

7 Signs Your Partner Is Not Marriage Material

By Cristina Conti
Women always fall for the bad boys. Just listen to one song on Beyoncé's Lemonade and you'll hear her crying out for the entire female population. Part of my job as a professional matchmaker entails exposing the con artists to our Bachelorettes…

10 Ways To Make Sure You're Open To Love, Despite Your Independent Nature

By Cristina Conti
Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris' one-year anniversary is every Millennial's relationship goal. How have the girl who “can't make them stay” and the guy who has been known to “blame it on the night” come this far? Relationships are challenging for us…