Carly Spindel


A native New Yorker, Carly Spindel has traveled the world and lived in Paris, Moscow, and London. Carly is persistent, vivacious, and gregarious. Carly Spindel gets men and women married. She was trained by the Matchmaker of all Matchmakers, Janis Spindel. She finds love for smart, upscale, commitment minded, attractive, professional singles nationwide. Carly is passionate about love and is a dating and relationship expert. She has gotten 79 couples married and enjoys spreading love across the country!

10 Telltale Signs You're Finally Ready To Move In With Your Partner

By Carly Spindel
As we get older, many of us meet someone we like, get our hopes up we've found The One, and bam, we're all over it like white on rice. That's a classic example of a bad reason to move in together: moving far too fast. When you decide to share an…

10 Things Your Girlfriend Is Thinking But Is Too Afraid To Tell You

By Carly Spindel
Women are over thinkers; it just comes naturally to us. We could analyze until we’re blue in the face and sadly, we can’t help it. There are so many things we think but don’t say because we care about you — our boyfriends — and don’t want to hurt…

10 Things Your Boyfriend's Thinking, But Will Never Tell You

By Carly Spindel
Sometimes, the truth hurts, and the truth is, there are some things your boyfriend wants to tell you but doesn’t because he cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Well, here are 10 things he wishes he could say without the…

10 Different Ways To Spend Your Valentine's Day So It's Unique

By Carly Spindel
Women love when men plan things. Planning, also known as "the P word," is such an aphrodisiac. When men are thoughtful, it shows us they care, which is something we absolutely love. Valentine’s Day is a great way to show the people in your life you…

9 Signs It's About Time You Take A Break From Dating

By Carly Spindel
Sometimes, dating can seem tedious -- too tedious. It can even start to be a bit of a nuisance. If you’ve started to compare going on dates to visiting the gyno, it’s probably time to take a break from dating. Here are nine signs you should give the…

He Said He Would Call: 9 Likely Reasons Why A Guy Will Choose Not To Call You Again

By Carly Spindel
Have you ever gone out with someone you really liked, but never heard from him after the first date? Did you ever text a man after a great evening out, but he didn’t text you back? It should come as no surprise that men and women are very…

10 Things All Women Wish Men Would Be More Mindful Of In Bed

By Carly Spindel
Sex is an activity loved by people of all ages, so being good in bed is very important. Many men can't stop talking about sex and assume they're the best out there. They boast about their bedroom skills, but they're truly clueless as to what they’re…

What Women Really Want: 10 Traits Men Have That Make Them The Whole Package

By Carly Spindel
As a matchmaker, it’s my job to meet droves of women to get a sense of who they are and what they want in a partner. I can find out more from them in five minutes than most would learn in five dates! Most women think they know what they want, but…

It's Not About Comfort: 9 Mistakes Women In Relationships Make In The Bedroom

By Carly Spindel
More often than not, your bedroom routine can use a little spicing up. You love your man and expect him to initiate sex, right? Wrong! A relationship takes work. Sex, believe it or not, is part of that work. Study up so when it comes to sex, you can…