Cosmo Luce

Cosmo Luce is a queer writer and diviner with an Aquarius sun/Leo moon.

Recent Articles

I Gave Up Masturbation For A Month & It Completely Changed My Life

As a sex and dating writer who has been single for the last four years, I need to get my rocks off somehow. But hooking up with strangers? In this economy? That option doesn't work for me. It takes me a lot of time to feel comfortable enough to have …
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4 Tips For Being Yourself On Dates, Because You're Rad & Should Show That Off

A first date can be nerve-wracking. You want to be vulnerable and open in order to give the person a good sense of who you are, but at the same time you want to protect your heart in case things don't work out. To help navigate this tension, I reache…
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Wait, Everything You Think You Know About Royal Wedding Bouquets Is A Lie

With Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's royal wedding less than two weeks away on May 19, there's been a lot of buzz about all the finer details of this historic ceremony. All of the details have already been excruciatingly planned, from the color sche…
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What Your Zodiac Sign Reveals About Your First Date Body Language

Every sign has a different way of behaving when they are on a first date. What your zodiac sign reveals about your first date body language also has a lot to do with whether you are an air, earth, water, or fire sign, and how you determine whether or…
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If You Want To Get Married, Here's When It'll Happen, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

The moon and stars can provide guidance that can inform you as you go about navigating your fate, especially when it comes to forming different relationships with yourself and with others here on Earth. One of things you get to decide when forming th…
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3 Early Signs That You Just Met Your Soulmate, Even If You're Not Official Yet

Soulmate relationships begin with becoming well-attuned to who you are and what you want to continue to be. Once you have achieved that inner harmony, your soul seeks out another piece of itself in another person. Keep in mind that sometimes, soulmat…
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5 Sad Facts You Didn't Know About Prince Charles & Diana's Rocky Marriage

I get why people like royal weddings. They look happy and shiny, and make people think about kings and queens and fairytales. But fairytales are stories for a reason. Monarchies are not very nice, as any feudal serf can tell you. The British Empire h…
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Should You Play It Chill When Dating To Make People Want You More? Here's The Truth

To chill or not to chill is really the question of our time when it comes to modern dating. Toeing the line between demonstrating you are interested and coming off as overbearing, obsessive, or just the dreaded (and very general) "too much" can be ex…
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These 3 Zodiac Signs Have The Worst Luck In Love This Month

Bad luck is a matter of perspective. In one view, bad luck seems to be a missed opportunity, a failure, an inconceivable twist of fate that has left you out in the cold and down on yourself. Through another lens, bad luck is a necessary barrier, keep…
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Who You'll Have A Steamy Summer Fling With, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Too often in today's dating culture, we think that we know what we like within two seconds of meeting a person. We assume that we know whether or not we will be attracted to someone based on how they look from across the room. Regardless of your sign…
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These 5 Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely To Say "I Love You" To Their Partner First

Those three little words can be so tiresome and so tricky, but also so rewarding can't they? I've broken up with people when they've told me they love me. I've also had people break up with me when I confess my feelings to them. All of that weight we…
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These 3 Zodiac Signs Will Have The Best Luck In Love This Month

May is going to be an auspicious time for many, many signs. Regardless of relationship status, the May 2018 love horoscope predicts a collective opening up. As boundaries have become increasingly crystallized, we are all going to be finding the space…
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3 Sex Toys For Queer Women That'll Take Your Pleasure To New Heights

There are so many things I love about being queer that it would be unfair for me to rank them or put them on any hierarchy. I love that my queerness gives me permission to invest as much in my friendships as I do in romantic relationships. I love tha…
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How You Communicate Best In A Relationship, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Words aren't the only way we communicate. When you're in a relationship, millions and millions of other tiny gestures provide valuable data that can inform someone about how their SO is feeling. And depending on your individual identity, some of thes…
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3 Tiny Ways To Put Yourself Out There More If You're Shy

When you're shy, it can feel like the world doesn't notice you and all of your assets. But the truth might be that you aren't noticing all of the assets of the world around you. It's OK to use your shell as protection, but if you're trying to figure …
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These 3 Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely To Lead You On, So Be Careful

Isn't there something so cutely embarrassing about crushing? It's like you're moving about your life, waiting for something to happen, when all of a sudden somebody comes along and knocks you off your seat. From the vulnerable position of being head …
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Here’s The Best Sexy Photo To Send Your Partner, Based On Their Zodiac Sign

These days, we maybe don't pay enough attention to the visual components of sex. It's true that the male gaze hasn't done much for eroticism, but there's a lot to be said for the basic rules of attraction. When staging some sexy photos to send your p…
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If You're Not Attracted To Your First Date After This Long, You Might Lack Chemistry

The laws of attraction can be confusing, to say the least. In the past, I've thought that I'd been totally crushing on someone, only to find out that I didn't actually want to date them. Instead, I wanted to become them. I've tried to date people who…
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7 People Reveal Their Go-To Methods For Calming Their Nerves On A First Date

I have a working theory that the extent to which you are worried about what someone else thinks of you is directly proportional to how nervous you will be on a first date. I might not be able to back up those facts with scientific research, but based…
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These 3 Zodiac Signs Love To Flirt, So Don’t Get Your Hopes Up

As a wise friend once said to me, intentions aren't always clear when you've got a new partner on your dance card. Sometimes, a crush isn't meant to go further than an initial attraction. Rejection is protection, saving you time you might otherwise h…
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